Be Careful What You Wish for

Aside from almost constant calls from her former guy, not much has been going on. It was even amazing that he texted her the other day and finally called.....turns out his wife was not too far from where he was and he wanted to hear her get off. My guess is that the "danger" was a turn on for her and I could hear her cum...The call was short and quick but the sounds to me seemed to indicate an orgasm.....Funny how living on the edge can create sexual arousal.....I think that is why she and this guy had spent so many years together. they fucked in his vehicle, her vehicle, behind buildings, at airports, in hotels, and even one place that I can not even mention...but trust me....it was a place where serious consequences could have happened....especially for him.

Last night, we did our shave the pussy routine/ritual. I got the kitty nice and smooth, then got my reward by bringing her off with my mouth. That really turns me on.. The whole ritual, shaving her while Im on my knees and then getting her off from the same position. I was needless to say quite aroused and hard.

As we lay in bed, she was masturbating me, slowly, very slowly and I sensed she was not going to finish...She says to me, "You are not going to come until I get fucked!" Well at first I'm thinking, damn its going to be hard to fuck her and not cum since I'm so close to the edge right now. Then she says, "So you better hope he comes over tomorrow."

I'm thinking it was her phone pal, but, nope....its the new number one guy....the one she recently wrote about. He is supposed to come over today....So after he gets her pussy I may get to cum....I am hoping it is by fucking her as I haven't beenn in that tight little pussy of hers in a while........But if he does not she reiterated that I am not cumming until she gets fucked. Damn I sure hope someone comes over to fuck her and sooner rather than later.

I suppose one must be careful in what one wishes for.. I have always enjoyed the fantasy of getting her after someone else, and now I just may have it really come true....I sure don't want one of those long dry spells now.

.....and finally as I read my favorite blogs where other wives are doing men other than husbands, I am always awed that so many of us all seem to do this at or about the same time......is it something in the stars?

We are not alone!!!

Obviously, the final decision to close shop has not been made.. I had one comment that indicated the commenter did not fully understand what it is we do and how we are happy doing it. I appreciated that comment because I originally started the blog to give incite into cuckolding and present how a coupe that really engages in it does so. I feel that the folks over at MrsKellysPlayhouse also present a good view on a reality couple, as does PDX DewsDates Babylon and others as well too numerous to mention.

If the point of the blog was to create understanding, which is not the same as saying you should do it too, and we are not contributing to the level of understanding, then as I stated earlier probably coming to the end of what I can write. Other than reporting on encounters which I hope are some what titillating, then there really isn't much point. I never wrote the blog just to be erotic, although I understand that can be a byproduct.

So on to this post. Saturday night we went to a club for the first time in over a year. It was to celebrate a milestone. I had to work all day, and was dog tired but after some good strong coffee and some diet colas to boost my energy we both made it out to get an early 9:30pm start.

The club is an "off premises" swingers club. It is now next door to what one might call a "titty bar." This particular club is bit Urban, a bit Country, a bit classy and a bit earthy." Girls in Blue jeans to hot club wear. Guys is Country dress to biker wear to GQ style. In other words a good mix.

The club plays a mixture of music to appeal to all. The dance floor is large. There are the mandatory poles for anyone who wishes to use them. Usually the girls do......The booze is supplied by the patron, the set ups by the house. It gets a steady stream by 10 and starts to rock by 11....(we left at the stroke of midnight....work the next day too and I was worn out anyway.)

We took a table as far away from the smokers as possible but soon were in the midst of a gray haze. ( I hate smoke and this from a former 3pack a day guy....)

Typical of most swinger clubs, you see lots of girl on girl action. The girls dance with each other. (this happens in vanilla places too) The girls get exhibitionist, taking their tops off and flashing breasts, shaved pussies, hairy ones too (mostly shaved or trimmed). The guys never show off, its really frowned on. (Maybe not by the girls but certainly by the guys) An unwritten rule of supposedly open minded people.

......and while you see two girls on each other and two girls and guy ('EVERYMANS FANTASY?") as they say......you never-ever-not even see two guys and girl.

Once my wife, our friend (a fuck buddy from our former State) and I went to a club in that state. We had to go on Friday when they allowed single guys. If looks could kill, we'd be dead. We went into a group room where people openly engaged in sexual activity and it became apparent that we were not welcome as a MFM threesome. One guy even remarked to his lady (dont know if she was a wife or swing bud) "OH MY GOD, ITS TWO GUYS AND A GIRL!" His tone was one of utter disgust and her tone agreed with his tone.

At another off site swinger dance club only five miles from the one above, where we went quite often and knew the owner a stunningly beautiful woman, my wife asked her if it would be ok to bring a male friend with us. She looked at us strangely, stated the club was couples only, no single guys. MsBdenied said something to the effect of whats the difference if its two guys and a girl comared to two girls and a guy. Lady owner wrinkled her face in deep thought, and after about a minute of what was obviously deep contemplation said, "Ok, but he has to stay with you two at all times, he can't get up and wander around, he can't go to any couples and I would appreciate it if you take full responsibilty for his actions. My god like a fucking child.......we never went back. The point is even in open minded thinking two guys and girl is just radical thought.

So back to Saturday. Here we are in one of the most Conservative areas of one of the most Conservative states in one of the strangest clubs we have ever been in and who takes the table next to us? Yup! two guys and a very hot brunette dressed in a killer LBD (little black dress for you guy readers). One guy has a wedding ring on: the other a really young handsome big dude. I can say that without it being gay- right? They have their bottle of vodka and they have a couple of drinks and I notice handsome big dude has his hand half way up the LBD and the guy with the wedding ring is half way up the other leg. At one point MsLBD opens her shapely legs, ( I got a great upskirt) and Handsome big dude is sliding his fingers under some very pretty (get this ) white lacy thongs, while Mr Wedding ring is trying to get his past the other side of the lacy panties.

There is a couple behind the table at the bar. He is another big dude, not at all handsome, quite overweight, and his hot blond wife looks about half smashed or stoned or something. Mr Overweight big dude is giving that "If looks could kill, I can't believe what I'm seeing look." He taps Ms I'M stoned on the knee and over a lull in the music I hear, "Do you believe this, those two guys are feeling her up....? and his tone and the look of angst and confusion are almost written on his face. Ms Im stoned, just shrugs and a slight smile curls from her lips. I notice she spends the rest of the night with her eyes closed...Maybe on the nod.....who knows for sure.

Five minutes before we leave my wife who was also enjoying the show and rewarding me with a foot job on my very erect cock, leans to the girl and whispers what I later learned was her words of encouragement and she told her that she too likes two guys. She related the story about our venture into the club and hoped MsLBD has better luck with acceptance. MsLBD told MsBdenied that "two heads are better than one."

So finally in public, we are not alone.....its emerging..slowly but surely....MFM is here and its coming out of the closet....and even if you don't understand it we do and we like it.....

No calls yet

She received an email a few days ago from her guy whom she has had an ongoing thing since we moved to our new place.

We had thought he dropped off the earth and or was no longer interested. Told her he was really horny and wanted to see her.

She replied she had to visit the doc for some diagnostic tests... Routine exams but they were going to put her out of commission for a day...she had the procedure and it was great....There are no problems....bottom line is we havent heard from him.

So things have been quite....we did play a bit with each other the night before she went in for her tests. It required her to not eat anything for 24 hrs, which in and of itself is difficult at best. Then she had to drink some really lousy tasting stuff to have her pictures taken.....and we dont mean the kind that one posts for HNT..

She was playing with my cock and since she could not eat anything, I got to eat her....then since she couldnt enjoy food I did not get to enjoy cumming...fair enough right?

It was still fun.....and then again last night she kept playing with me, getting me hard, close and then backing off.....she is such a tease./...

When the Cat is away

I have to go on personal/business trip tomorrow and I believe that I have heard a rumor that she may wind up spreading her legs for her FWB either tonight or while away...If it happens I will let you know.

How Long

On April 25th her boyfriend came over and fucked her. I came home to discover the Privacy Please Sign on the Bedroom door.

On May 3rd I wrote a post and in that post mentioned that since he had fucked her I had gone done on her a couple of times and had gotten her off but had not been in her pussy.

Since her fuck she and I have played with each other, I have gotten her off a couple of more times. We have been slow in the sex department. Work is taking up a lot of time since we had so many lay offs and are down to a bare minimum staff. As I mentioned in the post of 4/26 ( I wrote it the day after she got fucked) that I had not been in her pussy...Actually up until Saturday May 23, I had not even cum in a very long time. I can't even remember how long.

Saturday she got her cunt shaved, and then she got her reward for having it shaved, a nice slow tongue licking until she came gallons in my mouth, and then she massaged my cock until it spurted its white cream all over me...it felt good and it was fun but I tried holding off but could not....I wanted to tell her not to get me off but in the end I said fuck it, it's her choice and her choice seemed to be to end the drought.

Well the cumming drought anyway. Her pussy has only had strange cock in it since then and I wonder how much longer before it gets in her again.....will mine get there first or will some other hard cock get there first?

I was over at "Vanilla's" blog and he had or has gone six weeks with no cumming and his cock has been banished from Sandy's pussy...perhaps for a long time....it seems more and more girls are getting into this form of play and more of us guys are ok with it.

Naughty Grocery Shopping

Yesterday we were at the grocery store picking up a few items we needed. We were not at our neighborhood store as we had some errands to run, and stopped by one on our way home but a City or so away.

Her phone beeps and she has a text msg from her former and number one fuck buddy...he is sexually graphic...wants to slide his big cock in her etc....she texts back and he says he will call.

I do what a good cuckold husband does. I finished shopping and she goes to the car to await his call. I come out of the store fifteen minutes later and approach with the shopping cart. She is on the phone. I can just see inside the car. She has a fleece jacket over her lap. She has the phone to her ear, her other hand under the jacket. She closes the phone, puts it down, with the phone hand free, she adjusts the jacket and removes her hand from inside the waistband of her jeans. She buttons her pants, zips up....My wife was obviously masturbating in the car while on the phone with the old boyfriend. She has a big ear to ear grin. The parking lot is full of shoppers who ambled by or near our car.

I put the groceries in the back and she tells me my timing was good...Then she tells me about the call....She makes it a point to tell me she told him to get his ass to our city so she could suck and fuck his "huge cock." Of course she tells me that is what she told him to stroke his ego....perhaps she is also letting me know that he has a huge cock. She tells me she told him her pussy is still tight. He always tells her that she has a tight pussy. She tells me she told him that her pussy is even tighter becaus she has not had his big cock splitting her cunt open.....I sit fascinated in the car, my own cock is swollen.......Im fucking turned on and I feel as if I had just been cuckolded again, but not quite....well the next best thing anyway.

A quick side note, he called again today for more phone sex...he is on a big trip and must not be getting any pussy.....she said he needs to get his cock here ASAP.

Happy weekend

Phone calls and ESP

Sunday my wife and I had a good romp in the sack...We took some hot photos of ourselves which put us in the mood. I trimmed her little pussy, (stop by tomorrow) and eventually plunged inside her after she had cum by mouth...I just adore getting her off by mouth...Thank goodness I learned to use my tongue.......plunging my cock into her while I think she finds it enjoyable is much more for my enjoyment than her sexual stimulation. I suppose that is why I just love it when she takes a nice big hard cock and gets her cunt pounded.

As we laid in bed enjoying the afterglow I mentioned that she would probably get a phone call from her boyfriend that she had before we moved. It seems that if the new guy comes around or I actually fuck my wife then the former guy calls within a day or so. I swear he smells the cum and wants to reclaim her pussy.

She called me yesterday and said, "Guess who called me this moring on my way to work." I immediately knew what she meant and I suppose my ESP was working or his ESP was working.

She really did have a remarkable connection with that guy. They fucked each other for about five years. His calls for booty came randomly.......What was amazing was that he always seemed to get her in the evenings after work or he would call her at two AM and want her to come to his hotel room to fuck her.....I'm sure she misses those clandestine encounters.....kissing me and telling me she was going to go fuck her boyfriend and patting my hard cock before she would go off on her tryst and leave my cock swollen...she would say go back to sleep knowing I would be laying there with a hard on, trying to visualize his cock pounding her pussy.

She loves fucking her boyfriends and I think she loves it even more knowing that Im not there, not seeing what is going on......she loves walking down the hallway to our bedroom with the current guy, closing the door and fucking him....she loved it the day I came home, found the "Do not Disturb" sign on the door and she loved it when he fucked her and left and did not even stop to say hello or goodbye to me....

For me it would be great if she got laid three times a week by strange cock....the more she gets the more I want her to get....ESP....I think it really exists.....

You have a tight.........

"God damn you suck good cock, I like you on your knees.!" Well I may have it out of order just a bit. It is very hard to hear completely behind a closed door, but those are the words I heard last night.

I could hear her slupring and I suppose it must have been his cock...Loud sucky sounds, muffeled moans of pleasure and whipers of her blissful agony.

The door was locked. I heard the door bell and she literally ran to get it. She was dressed in that skimpy pink nighty.....(look a few posts back for the photo.) I was busy in the kitchen putting something away. She greated him and I could hear what sounded like deep kissing and a soft moan and then a man's voice say something about pusssy...Then her saying lets go, its cold here, or something like that. I tried to put away what it was I was putting and hurried to the hall but got there just as the door closed.

That is when I started to hear what I wrote in the opening lines. It's amazing how erotic it is not seeing but only hearing.......There was light on in the room and I could see shadows move through the space between the door and the floor but could not see much of anything else.

Soon I heard him groaning, and it sounded as if he were trying to keep from cumming....then I heard her whimper that sound she makes when her pussy is being licked and nibbled...Then I heard the bed move and the deep sounds she makes as a hard cock is slamming into her wet pussy and then I heard him say, "You have a tight pussy," and she moaned and I heard skin slap skin and I could only envision his hard cock pounding into her slippery wet pussy...

Then I think I heard her moan, "Fuck it, take it its your pussy....." and there was a gutteral response so muffled by extasy that I could not make it out..

My own cock grew hard and I quitely pulled the zipper down and felt its hardness.. Yes, I stood there with my own cock in my own hand as my wife was having her cunt filled with another mans cock and yes as I discovered later his cum too.

Then I thought, I should cum but I was so fucking turned on I thought I could hold back and later I could slide my own hard throbbing dick into her well used pussy....So with much reluctance I stuffed my swollen friend back into my pants and stood for a few more minutes only leaving when I thought the sounds were going to make me spurt without even touching it.....I went to make dinner and was eating it 30 minutes later and they were still in our bedroom fucking on the bed that I share with her.

Another fifteen minutes elapsed before I heard the door open and footsteps down the hallway....I heard the front door open and he left. I never even saw him enter or leave and the only evidence of his being there was her wet slippery pussy that I manged to insert only a finger into.

She told me about the encounter and how hard he was and how hard he fucked her and how much fun they had....You may think I got into that pussy with my own cock later that night and if you thought that, you would have been lucky to not have waggered money on the thought because the only cock she let in was his.

An Interesting Conversation

For those of you who read this blog, you may be aware that on occasion we play tease and denial games....I like them..I like the attention that she gives me when she plays with me.For me it is very soothing and relaxing...I know a lot of guys are thinking no way could I be left hanging.....maybe its not for you, but for me it is.

Well I have a female friend who also likes tease and denial games and we had a chat and she said or rather asked me how it would feel to be limited to a specific number of ejaculations...Like how limited I asked and she said no more than once a month for a total of 12 in a year.....or once every other month for a total of only six......I had to think about that....would fantasy overtake reality.....

I mean what would the absolute minimum be....twelve, six, three, two, one or none........what would Ms bdenied be comfortable with? what would I be comfortable with.....? what would you be comfortable with? Maybe I should do a poll and let you the reader decide......any comments?

Poll Results and Tease without Denial

Well the panty flash poll results are up...I received 64 total votes and by an overwhelming majority of 75% or 41 ladies of the 54 have on purpose exposed their panties to someone... A few comments I received indicated that at least a few of you sexy girls weren't wearing any panties at the time of exposure...

Thanks to those who took the time to respond to that silly little poll...What is says I think, is that you ladies know there is power in the pussy and you use it to tease and tantalize us poor guys....Yes, we do love you for it.

Along the lines of Tease and Denial or Denial without Tease. Curious Girl has given me permission to post a spot she wrote on that subject...Apparently a post written here promted her post, but I'm sure had I not written of it, no doubt she would have eventually done so herself.. You see CG totaly gets it....so without further ado I shall post her here and thank her so much for letting me do so.. I really wanted a girls point of view on this whole subject....

http://avidcuriosity.blogspot.com/

Sunday, October 26, 2008

tease and denial
i read a recent post over at bdenied that invited me to take a closer look on my evolving view of all things sexual...he essentially explained the difference between tease and denial and flat out denial...and he summed it up pretty well...a part of me has always been intrigued by this sort of sexual play, even though i did not fully understand what i was doing or follow through most of the time...i just knew that some things just didnt work as far as turning me on...example: soldier boy, while sweet and kind, would sometimes try "dirty talk" with me...but calling me a "slut" had me disinterested and bored...not angry or irritated...BORED...he would immediately gauge my disinterest..."i can tell you didnt like that"...example: trying to get me to say/do things i do not want to do lowers my arousal to almost nothing...i know for some, that coercion factor can be a great sexual ploy...but for me it wasnt...i became that woman that just wants to hurry up and get it over with...it was unthrilling...and maybe that is why so many women do move to this place...because they are in sexual relationships that are not fulfilling all their needs...not just physical...maybe because they dont know what they need and only think that they do...i had, however, been in a very brief relationship (which i have mentioned before) maybe two or three years ago (probably closer to three) when i was with a male nurse who really enjoyed a more forceful female...now here i got a serious thrill...he had obviously been experienced with a dominant woman...sometimes, i would tease him and not let him cum...i would tell him not to touch himself for long periods of time and he ENJOYED this...and so did i...i would just tell him "you cant touch yourself, because i'm not ready"....or..."you cant cum until i tell you to"...had i always been this way?...i'll admit, in the past i had toyed with the tease and denial but i was not experienced enough and i think most men in general arent prepared to allow a woman with that kind of control sexually...men want women to be free sexually, but they dont always realize that for some of us, to be free sexually, is to be allowed to take control...to dictate and to give their partner the gift of being able to let go...i do not like being controlled sexually...it does nothing for me...my thoughts drift to the non-sexual and i lose interest...fast...what drives me in the tease/denial is that i enjoy pushing that other person to certain places they would not normally consider...i know how aroused they become and that makes me even more aroused myself...i want them to feel sexually stimulated to a breaking point where they cant think...where they are in it to see just how far they can go...i know that i am setting the pace for their sexual energy to blossom...and i know that i can control how high and low the energy will hum...for both of us...cg
Posted by curiousgirl at 6:41 PM

The Other Side of The Door

I had been anticipating the encounter for a week. Being at a new job. it was a task manipulating being able to leave at exactly 12:30 before the first shift returned. But being that I had,as they say, a hot date, I made sure it got arranged. It was pouring rain-it was a frustratingly SLOW drive the 3 miles home. Finally home, it wasn't long before Mr. Shoulders showed up as planned. We walked down the hall & he entered the bedroom. I shut the door & slyly slipped a "Privacy Please" sign that had been swiped form a hotel on the outsire door knob, knowing that hubby may be home at any minute. Now the fun begins. What with the rain soaked bodies, it was steamy. It was only moments before our bodies were disrobed. He kissed me with hungry eyes. His cock was hard. His cock was large. I just love sucking that hard cock-swiping my tongue up & down the shaft & "tickling" the tip while sucking, sucking sucking. Then, kneeling over the bed, he shoved that cock into a tight pussy. He pounded away making it wetter & wetter. I moaned with each thrust. When it was over, there was a large deposit inside this well lubricated pussy. It was thrilligng knowing there would be "backwash" onto my lace panties & it would be a reminder for the rest of the day of the passionate lunch hour.

And yes, during the afternoon, sitting at my desk, my nose could detect that I had had SEX. How exciting! The anticipation, trying to coordinate a lunch hour, and having the smells subtley reminding me of the passion. A Fergie tune went through my head all afternoon---"The smell of your skin lingers on me now. You're probly on your flight back to your hometown.." Well...it is not the smell of skin & he isn't on a flight, (that is another story for another day) but it is the subtle smell of another man after he got back in his car & went home. A very sexy feeling.

It was especially a sexy feeling for me because I knew hubby would be coming home & would have to wait outside the door listening to the sounds of sex. And sure enough, he had gotten home during the encounter. He had a hard on the rest of the day thinking about what was denied him & what he could have later.

Mrs bdenied

Sexual adiction????

Last night there was not much on television. We did watch our favorite Brit sitcom "Coupling" and it was gut busting funny....Jeff one of the main characters was torn between "unconditional sex" with a co-worker and his girlfriend......the perils of a guy trying to be faitful in the face of a beautiful girl who was offering him her pussy with no strings attached....a girl in a comitted relationship....a cuckoldress....oh well..


The show was followed by a series titled "Secret Lives of Women" on some network called "WE". So we thought we would watch....They featured four women who claim to be sexually adicted....to me being sexually adicted is like having too much money....is it possible?

The take I get from it was that women think they are supposed to say no...they are not supposed to have sex and if they do and they have sex with more than what we consider is "normal" then they are sexual adicts.....Men are rarely sexual adicts and when they are it is when they get caught cheating and they claim this rare conditon and disease "Sexual adiction." Remember our Commander in Cheat....he claimed sexual adiction...then there was Michael Douglas he claimed sexual adiction...I just read that Fidel Castro claims to have "slept" translate fucked.....35,000 women. I don't remember exactly how old he is but I think 80 at least which means if he fucked one women every day since he was born (thats a bit impossible) he fucked more than one a day....He claims to have fucked for breakfeast, lunch, dinner etc.....is he adicted or just a real lucky S.O.B...in any event he is not claiming adiction just being the worlds greatest stud.....

No men never seem to be adicted to sex...I dont think women are either...They just seem to have this need to feel guilty if they fuck someone or fuck more than one someone.

I do not usually editorialize but today I did not have much to write about since not much cuckolding has been going on...I guess maybe Im adicted to her fucking other men and I need my fix.....Perhaps I will start a CA group...(Cuckolds Anonymous)......we better not put our chairs in a circle or the meetings will turn into "circle jerks" as we recount who fucked our wives and how they did it...

Have a great day guys.....and stop by now and then, as I may have something fun to write about......but lately its just been she and I having routine great borining husband and wife sex.

Still Holding

Look at the previous post "No Trespassing" I found a photo that illustrates the theme and edited the post.

I got an email from her new Fantasy guy and he said he was going to come over sometime this week. I hope so.

We are in some serious need of cuckolding around here. I will let you know if it happens. Kinda hard to keep a blug about cuckolding when it does not happen.

Dancing

We went to a club last night. The club can best be described as an on premises couples club but we went there to just listen to the music and dance.

We were up dancing, she looked very hot in a nice LBD. It was short but not too short....Short enough to make it interesting, long enough to keep it that way. We were doing our version of dirty dancing. I was feeing her up pretty good. Sensually running may hands all over her, dancing close, my leg between her legs, her dress hiking up and showing off her sexy legs.

She was taking the hem of the dress and as girls do flipping it in that flirty way...Slowly raising the hem to show up her tiny thong....Then I would move in close place my hands on her ass and work her dress up showing her off to whoever would care to watch...several other couples on the floor were doing similar things and the crowd ranged from the 20's to the 60's a good mix of ages...some very attractive, some not so and some like us average to maybe a bit above average. I think my wife is beautiful and for her age she is far above the average woman her age by a wide margin.

After dancing a guy came over and apologized for interrupting us and said he meant to cause no trouble. He said he was with his wife and his friend and his friend's wife. He said his friend was smitten by my wife and thought she was the hottest woman in the club....could he have his frined come over to introduce himself and again he apologized for interrupting us.

We gracioulsy accepted and soon a rather good looking guy came over, introduced himself and we chatted for few minutes. He was very complimentary to my wife and said his own wife was very shy and reserved. I think he was basically saying there could be no foursome but......

In ny event we chatted and found out he and I are in the same occupation. He sat next to my wife and I could tell he was doing his best to flirt with her. Later she told me he put his knee against hers and she did not pull away.

Well sorry to dissapoint you guys but I had a very early morning report to work and we had to bug out. We stopped by their table and said goodbye and thanked him for coming by. His buddy introduced his wife....(I wont go into that at all) and my wife's number one fan said his wife went to the ladies room.

We stopped our waitress on the way out who by this time had lost her top. Seems one gets to put a dollar bill in her cleavage when she brings a drink. House rules she says...great rule I think.

So without her top on any longer I had to put her tip into the waist band of her skirt and I tried to put it into her panties but alas she wore none....oh well at least she got a tip.

I woke up with the same erection I went to bed with.....oh yes my wife was orally taken care of yesterday. I got to put a fiver down a waitresss waist band and sleep on a hard on without doing damage to it.

Lunch Time

Well I stayed here until her lunch date arrived. We shook hands and I remarked that he was going to fuck my wife again and he just nodded his agreement. I headed off to lunch. I was going to get a burger but wound up at a hot dog stand instead. They smelled too good to pass up.

I got back just as she was about to leave. She had that "I have just been fucked glow." His scent was still on her. I asked if she had a good lunch and she said yes, kissed me and headed off for work again.

When she came home I got some more details, but not a lot more. She did say, "That was a very enjoyable fun romp." She said he mentioned that he apologized as it was a fast furious fuck and the entire event did not last long.

Her attitude was quite the contrary..She really enjoyed the fast furious pace and the urgency that it conveyed. She told me he "fucked me really hard and it felt really good." He apparently had some lunch of his own and she had her own "hot dog" to snack on.

She really likes this guy and likes the way he fucks her. She was and is impressed that he gets hard so quickly. She said that he undressed her (she really liked that) and that as he was undoing her zipper which was in the back of her dress (zippers are hidden all over th place on womens clothing) she could feel his hard on pressing against her. I think she described it as "His big hard on" I think that was her way of telling me that he does not lack in that department.....

My guess is that she would not mind having lunch with him some more....oh yeah and for those of you who want to know....I did not get any pussy from her last night.......my cock has not been inside her pussy in almost four weeks and he has had her at least twice during that time......I think I have gotten one hand job from her in that time and I have gotten to get her off a few times with my mouth but my cock has been denied access to her tight little pussy......

Too Hot for Comfort

We are having a major heat and our A/C took a dump. It got up to 90 in the house so we checked into our local hotel not far from here \.

I called the service company and they are supposed to get us in touch with a contractor. Lets hope. She is supposed to get together tomorrow with her new numero uno fantasy guy...The one who said he would make her forget all about the old one,.

Let's hope...but they will probably have to go to the hotel if the a/c is not fixed....that will be cool....I'll be here sweating while he is in a cool room making her sweat...LOL....I have not put my penis into her pussy since the last time he did her. I wonder if he knows that....????? I wonder sometimes if he tells her not to fuck me until after he is done with her...In some ways that would be very cool....I know she does not want me in her before hand and from what I can tell not usually afterwards either....cool enough with me.....but I also know that men who fuck other men's wives do not particularly want the husband doing the wife before he gets his cock in her.

I know this because she will often tell me, her fuck buddy will ask her when the was the last time she got laid. They make it sound like...."Oh you poor girl you must be horny from lack of cock..." but I think what they are really tring to discern is when was the last time another guy deposited his cum in her pussy...Most guys even though they do another man's wife do not want to put their cocks in a cum filled pussy...They much prefer the husband do that....so be it...so I would not ever be suprised if the boyfriend asks the wife to not fuck the husband until he gets his cock in her....if it happens I wonder how many times it has happened with us as it is not something she has told me before hand.......anyone having any thoughts on this let me know.

Got Milk?

I have read and read about the subject of prostate milking. We have tired it and never had any sucess. For those of you who don't know, the prostate glad in located inside the recal area and feels about the seize and shape of a walnut.

It produces the substance that we commonly call ejaculate. I don't have a clue as to how it does this I just know that it does. It does not make sperm but rather the liquid the sperm swim in...

I know that some claim that if the prostate is not emptied enough then bad things can happen.....I have heard everything from prostate cancer to swollen enlaged prostate casuing incomplete urination and frequenc.

While I don't ejaculate a lot I think I do so in healthy does and often enough to not be concerned.

In any event go back about three weeks and she and I had stopped in liquor store to buy some Irish Whiskey...There was a nearby adult "toy store." and we stopped in'

We found a glass (pyrex glass) dildo and we have been interested in one since we saw a segment on them on Real Sex an HBO documentry on sex lives around the world.

So we plopped our 35 bucks down and bought one.

Now she found the glass a bit too stiff for her liking and since she is not really into toys did not like it much.

The next day, feeling horny, I got this sudden urge to put it in me. I did and immediately a milky white substance looking a lot like watered down ejaculated was literally pouring from my penis opening. The sensation while not unpleasant and actully feeling good was not an orgasm nor was it a true ejaculation. It just poured out. I tried it with her that night and did manage to get some drops but they were more like pre-cum than the pouring I felt.

I have tried it with her a few more times and each time has been after I did it myself and again the same results.

Last night we went to a club, listened to some music and watched some very sexy people both female for me and male for her. Came home and I got my glass friend out again and tried it again. Nothing, zilch, nada, and then a five minute delay and it was oozing out like precum not like the free pour I had experienced by myself.

Still she got the idea. I did not ejaculate nor have an orgasm but stuff did come out in copious amounts but not to the degree it came out of me on my solo expeditions.

Eventually, we laid down in bed and she masturbated me and much to my suprise it pured out of me...a true ejaculation/orgasm.

I am going to continue to do this :milking" unil I get it right or we are dead which ever occurs first.

More Questions and Answers

I am again responding to some questions I get. Please feel free to ask here in the comments and or send them to me via email....the address is on the profile.


Q: You said you and she sometimes play chasity and or tease and denial games. How do you do that and have you ever been in a chasity device?

A> Mostly she will masturbate me on a nightly basis. She likes me to get an erection every day. Rarely do these masturbation sessions lead to me cumming...By cumming I mean an ejaculation. I do orgasm from them which you may find suprising is not the same as ejaculation. I have worn a chastity device and we both were involved with me wearing it. It was not something I did without her knowledge. Interestingly enough, chasity play can be very erotic.

Q: If you wore a chasity device for how long did you wear it?

A> I have worn one for up to 14 days, but I think long term wear is more a fantasy than a practica reality since they can be very, very uncomfortable to wear. I have only worn the tube kinds not the more expensive custom made ones.

Q: Would you go down on her after someone cums in her pussy or would you kiss her after she has given a bj?

A. Sure, I would.......although I must say its not something we ever discuss in any detail nor has it been any fantasy she has expressed to me but I would and I have. I think the real question here is would I if there were another guys cum there. Yes, I would......but I'm not sure its something that interests her or is of a particular turn on or turn off.

Q. Do you and she still have an active sex life.

A> Yes, very active

Q. How would you feel if she stopped having sex with you and only had sex with other men?

A> I would not like that a bit. I sometimes have a fantasy that I only provide her oral or hand service and she reserves her pussy for other cocks but I have no desire to be completely cut off. As a fantasy its fun as a reality I'm not sure about it.

From time to time I will answer questions here as long as you guys keep asking them. I do reply individually too.

A New Friend with Benefits

I dont have all the details but she had a good Saturday afternoon with a new Friend with Benefits...She was very happy when I got home.

As soon as I get the details you will get them too....all I know right now is that there was a tryst...standby

Sugasm 122

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March 10th, 2008 by Vixen | Updated: March 10th, 2008

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