Tuesday, October 27, 2009

I wonder if He knows

We have a friend that I work with. He lives way across town and we rarely socialize. But he and I get along well and my wife thinks he is kinda hot and Im sure she would fuck him in heartbeat if she could.

This past weekend, his wife was busy and had taken his kid with her to visit some friends. There was an event that we all wanted to go to and going there would take him past our house, so he stopped by, and the three of us drove together.

She had on some tight jeans and her ass looked awesome. So anyway she was sitting between us....I could not help but think how hot it would be to see her fuck him... Her cell started to beep and she was getting text messages from her old fuck buddy....His timing was incredible...she sent a few texts back and forth and I just looked at my friend and he had this look on his face that more or less said, "Hey, I think your wife is getting messages from a guy."

At one point during our trip he asked her why she found something so exciting and she told him and of course her boyfriend fit the profile of what he asked about.....he also noted that certain sights and sounds seem to get her aroused.

Well later I found out that when I went to the bathroom and she was alone with him, she looked at him and said, "My old boyfriend still calls me on occasion and that was him texting me today." He still stays in touch...!" She let it go at that but the implication was clear...She is fucking him or does fuck him and her pussy is available.....I wonder if he knew what she was really telling him....? That is her pussy was and is available if he wants it.

During the day she made other hints that she does not mind being flirted with....so I wonder if he knows?

Friday, October 16, 2009

Not really ruined

IN the past year or so I have come across some sites that talk about ruined orgasms. I suppose what they mean is that the one who "ruins" the orgasm does so by removing stimulus at the exact moment a man begins to ejaculate, hence reducing the pleasure, inhibiting or reducing the orgasmic level and there fore making the ejaculation not as pleasant as it could be. There is even a couple who has a web site devoted to tease/denial and ruined orgasms.

Personally, I don't think one can have a ruined orgasm.....but I also have come to understand that a male can orgasm without ejaculating and can ejaculate without orgasm.....I know because I have been able to achieve either or both and have done so on many occasions. I often orgasm without ejaculation and believe me its intense and pleasant.

Recently, I have gotten fascinated with the concept of "ruined orgasm" and watching several videos of supposed "ruined orgasms" I have tried to duplicate them.

It's simple actually, stimulate the penis until an ejaculation is eminent and then just remove the stimulus and if timed just right, ejaculate cums out, its pleasant but there is NO ORGASM...
Milking the prostrate accomplishes the same thing but the sensation is different.

I have done this technique by myself and without mentioning who she is have discussed this with a fellow blogger.....she seems to think its hot too.

Well last night I was in the mood but my wife really wasnt as she had a tough day at work....so she offered to do something for me. I told her to try to just make me ejaculate without the orgasm...Now when she teases me and she senses Im about to pop, she will apply a lot of pressure basically choking off the ejaculation but it does not prevent me from having an orgasm or several actually.....so last night she just released her stimulation....timing wasnt good on the first few trys, the stimulation ended and no ejaculation....pleasureable nonetheless...she kept trying and eventually she released pressure, and a glob of cum oozed out...it did not shoot out like in a regular ejaculation and it was pleasureable but there was no orgasm whatsoever. It was really fun, we both enjoyed it and I loved the sensation....but more so was that she did it and not me......and this is what it more or less looked like

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Back on Memory Lane- The road to cuckolding

On occasion I write about how I got to the stage of being the cuckold husband. This is another of those posts. I'll keep it short.

Back in the early 90's (that seems like yesterday) I had just gotten a divorce and was again playing the single guy. I rarely ever bothered any of the girls at work since I was in a Supervisory/management position. But there was one girl who was very cute.. Sexy, and she wore glasses and I thought they made her look really hot. To top it off she had really nice perky breasts and wore her pants very tight.....nice ass.

So I asked her out and she accepted. Our first date we went to a Country/Western place that gave dance lessons at 7pm....we both admitted to not being able to dance. We went...took the class and it was obvious I'm a terrible dancer. She was not good either but the guy teaching the class came over, just took her by the hand and "demonstrated" how to lead the lady...Funny, she could dance pretty good with him when "lead properly."

I was turned on watching her dance with him. Anyway, she and I became and item for a couple of years. The sex was great......at times a bit kinky, and she was a little show off at times.

As it turned out there was a guy at work who had previously dated her. He had been fucking her for a long time and he was married. it turned out as time went by that she had never dated anyone who was not married and when I first asked her out my divorce was not yet final but became that way in a few short months. Technically, I was still married when we started dating.

Now here is where it gets interesting, I was in the locker room one day after working out in our gym and her former fuck buddy was there also. He looks at me and says, "You're dating G, right.?" "Yeah, why I asked.?" "Just wondering how you like having pussy I warmed up and used,? and he said it with a big shit eating grin. Then he asks me, "Do you eat that cunt of hers too." "I just looked at him and told him to go fuck off." But yeah, it is obvious he is enjoying knowing I was fucking pussy he had fucked and was eating it too." The whole idea was a turn on.

She and I did have talks about bringing in a third guy but it never happened as we eventually went our separate ways........and wouldn't you know it but the next girl I dated, had also dated the same guy, and I had no idea she had until after I asked her out.....

45 Days

 I may have mentioned that after a nice session between my wife and me where she came and I did not, my wife had been teasing me to the brin...