Poll Results and Tease without Denial

Well the panty flash poll results are up...I received 64 total votes and by an overwhelming majority of 75% or 41 ladies of the 54 have on purpose exposed their panties to someone... A few comments I received indicated that at least a few of you sexy girls weren't wearing any panties at the time of exposure...

Thanks to those who took the time to respond to that silly little poll...What is says I think, is that you ladies know there is power in the pussy and you use it to tease and tantalize us poor guys....Yes, we do love you for it.

Along the lines of Tease and Denial or Denial without Tease. Curious Girl has given me permission to post a spot she wrote on that subject...Apparently a post written here promted her post, but I'm sure had I not written of it, no doubt she would have eventually done so herself.. You see CG totaly gets it....so without further ado I shall post her here and thank her so much for letting me do so.. I really wanted a girls point of view on this whole subject....

http://avidcuriosity.blogspot.com/

Sunday, October 26, 2008

tease and denial
i read a recent post over at bdenied that invited me to take a closer look on my evolving view of all things sexual...he essentially explained the difference between tease and denial and flat out denial...and he summed it up pretty well...a part of me has always been intrigued by this sort of sexual play, even though i did not fully understand what i was doing or follow through most of the time...i just knew that some things just didnt work as far as turning me on...example: soldier boy, while sweet and kind, would sometimes try "dirty talk" with me...but calling me a "slut" had me disinterested and bored...not angry or irritated...BORED...he would immediately gauge my disinterest..."i can tell you didnt like that"...example: trying to get me to say/do things i do not want to do lowers my arousal to almost nothing...i know for some, that coercion factor can be a great sexual ploy...but for me it wasnt...i became that woman that just wants to hurry up and get it over with...it was unthrilling...and maybe that is why so many women do move to this place...because they are in sexual relationships that are not fulfilling all their needs...not just physical...maybe because they dont know what they need and only think that they do...i had, however, been in a very brief relationship (which i have mentioned before) maybe two or three years ago (probably closer to three) when i was with a male nurse who really enjoyed a more forceful female...now here i got a serious thrill...he had obviously been experienced with a dominant woman...sometimes, i would tease him and not let him cum...i would tell him not to touch himself for long periods of time and he ENJOYED this...and so did i...i would just tell him "you cant touch yourself, because i'm not ready"....or..."you cant cum until i tell you to"...had i always been this way?...i'll admit, in the past i had toyed with the tease and denial but i was not experienced enough and i think most men in general arent prepared to allow a woman with that kind of control sexually...men want women to be free sexually, but they dont always realize that for some of us, to be free sexually, is to be allowed to take control...to dictate and to give their partner the gift of being able to let go...i do not like being controlled sexually...it does nothing for me...my thoughts drift to the non-sexual and i lose interest...fast...what drives me in the tease/denial is that i enjoy pushing that other person to certain places they would not normally consider...i know how aroused they become and that makes me even more aroused myself...i want them to feel sexually stimulated to a breaking point where they cant think...where they are in it to see just how far they can go...i know that i am setting the pace for their sexual energy to blossom...and i know that i can control how high and low the energy will hum...for both of us...cg
Posted by curiousgirl at 6:41 PM