Sans Pubic Hair

When I was a young kid, I could not wait till my pubic hair grew. I remember having to shower in the school gym after P.E. and was shy about my lack of pubic hair. Finally, about age 13 it came in and I hated it from the moment it arrived.

I wanted to get rid of it but was always afraid to do so for fear of being laughed at. There came a point in time where I started to trim it very short, but it was still there. Once a girl friend and I both shaved friskoff our respective forrests during some kinky play but it soon grew back, hers sooner than mine.....I liked the feel of no hair down there. Several years later I went in for a vasectomy and the nurses shaved me in prep of the surgery. That's a post in and of itself: but not today.

After being shaved I never let it grow back again and have not till this day and never will again.

When I met my wife, I soon discovered the hariest pussy I had ever seen., Most girls I knew either shaved it or trimmed it....I did not say a thing. We tend not too in those early relationship stages. One day I came home from work and we began to get frisky and have sex and to my delight she was shaved....Has been ever since and I love it.

We used to go to a nude beach and we came to the conclusion that more than 50% of the folks there are either shaved or very trimmed...Both sexes too...

So in the interest of my own curiousity, I have yet again put up a poll. This time for the men and the women readers and I ask if you are shaved and if you like your partner to be shaved. Please play along and as always leave me a comment if you want to elaborate. Thanks so much for playing.

I do appreciate all the comments and responses I have had to my recent posts. I mostly write this blog just because I enjoy writing and sharing our lives with you, but when you leave coments and play along you inspire me to keep this blog going. I love ya all.......thanks

Poll Results and Tease without Denial

Well the panty flash poll results are up...I received 64 total votes and by an overwhelming majority of 75% or 41 ladies of the 54 have on purpose exposed their panties to someone... A few comments I received indicated that at least a few of you sexy girls weren't wearing any panties at the time of exposure...

Thanks to those who took the time to respond to that silly little poll...What is says I think, is that you ladies know there is power in the pussy and you use it to tease and tantalize us poor guys....Yes, we do love you for it.

Along the lines of Tease and Denial or Denial without Tease. Curious Girl has given me permission to post a spot she wrote on that subject...Apparently a post written here promted her post, but I'm sure had I not written of it, no doubt she would have eventually done so herself.. You see CG totaly gets it....so without further ado I shall post her here and thank her so much for letting me do so.. I really wanted a girls point of view on this whole subject....

http://avidcuriosity.blogspot.com/

Sunday, October 26, 2008

tease and denial
i read a recent post over at bdenied that invited me to take a closer look on my evolving view of all things sexual...he essentially explained the difference between tease and denial and flat out denial...and he summed it up pretty well...a part of me has always been intrigued by this sort of sexual play, even though i did not fully understand what i was doing or follow through most of the time...i just knew that some things just didnt work as far as turning me on...example: soldier boy, while sweet and kind, would sometimes try "dirty talk" with me...but calling me a "slut" had me disinterested and bored...not angry or irritated...BORED...he would immediately gauge my disinterest..."i can tell you didnt like that"...example: trying to get me to say/do things i do not want to do lowers my arousal to almost nothing...i know for some, that coercion factor can be a great sexual ploy...but for me it wasnt...i became that woman that just wants to hurry up and get it over with...it was unthrilling...and maybe that is why so many women do move to this place...because they are in sexual relationships that are not fulfilling all their needs...not just physical...maybe because they dont know what they need and only think that they do...i had, however, been in a very brief relationship (which i have mentioned before) maybe two or three years ago (probably closer to three) when i was with a male nurse who really enjoyed a more forceful female...now here i got a serious thrill...he had obviously been experienced with a dominant woman...sometimes, i would tease him and not let him cum...i would tell him not to touch himself for long periods of time and he ENJOYED this...and so did i...i would just tell him "you cant touch yourself, because i'm not ready"....or..."you cant cum until i tell you to"...had i always been this way?...i'll admit, in the past i had toyed with the tease and denial but i was not experienced enough and i think most men in general arent prepared to allow a woman with that kind of control sexually...men want women to be free sexually, but they dont always realize that for some of us, to be free sexually, is to be allowed to take control...to dictate and to give their partner the gift of being able to let go...i do not like being controlled sexually...it does nothing for me...my thoughts drift to the non-sexual and i lose interest...fast...what drives me in the tease/denial is that i enjoy pushing that other person to certain places they would not normally consider...i know how aroused they become and that makes me even more aroused myself...i want them to feel sexually stimulated to a breaking point where they cant think...where they are in it to see just how far they can go...i know that i am setting the pace for their sexual energy to blossom...and i know that i can control how high and low the energy will hum...for both of us...cg
Posted by curiousgirl at 6:41 PM

All Hale Ceasar

Halloween is fun. We went to a party Saturday night. I dressed as Julius Ceasar and she as an Army Girl. It is fun to dress up. I have to admit, I felt very sexy. Can a guy say that?

She looked really hot. Something about a girl and guns that is just way hot. We danced, we had a good time.

She got really brave by the end of the night and had taken her top off and just had on the skirt and the bra she wore under the top.

I kept my clothes on......so two photos of each of us.....

Tag Along

I think I have played this once when someone tagged me..I'm not really sure how it goes so I copied what Ms Honey had on her blog since she tagged me Honey's Hive


1. I lost my virginity at: I'm a guy do we have virginity.. ?I did not loose it either.......To loose something means its important......but I had my first sexual experience at a very early age...very early indeed and it was with a girl and it was mutual consent.


2. I wear sandals : A lot....Chacos mostly......I wore them more in Florida than I do in Texas.
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3. I once had a threesome with: A girl who lived two doors down and my best friend who lived across the street. We were probably 12-14...I don't remember our exact ages.....First I watched him fuck her, then I fucked her or tried anyway.

4. I keep an battery powered toothbrush in: No place. Don't own one and never will

5. I make the world's best: I love to cook I dont know if I make the worlds best anything.

6. "my gay Methodist Minister:: I do not know what to do with this, I do not have a gay anything Minister......

7. Hubby says: I am the Hubby thank you very much.....

Flash-Friday

We forgot to do an HNT on Thursday so instead we are doing a Flash-Friday. I may have posted this before some time back in the blog so if you have seen it, sorry, you see it again. Not that the guy readers would mind being as they get a peek. It also goes along with my panty flash poll too. She has flashed hers on purpose and has gotten the attention of more than one male.

She wants to flash a policeman but every time we see one, she is either in shorts or jeans. She wants to do it in a restaraunt, accidentialy with her legs just open enough to give him a glimpse but not so obvious he knows it was on purpose.... Some might think she was without panties on this venture but they are indeed there..Pink little ones, and yes there were people around. We tried to make it look natural and that the exposure is just incidental t her sitting on the fountain....so enjoy.....I did....even after 15 years with this woman I still get a thrill looking up her skirt.

Denial Without Tease

In a previous life I was married to a woman who I had virtually nothing in common and who I probably should never have married. We had long and I mean long periods of time where there was no sex at all and when there was any, it was very lack luster and not at all enjoyable. I think not enjoyable for either of us...More of a have to obligation kind of sex... This kind of denial did not produce erotic thoughts...More so it produced thoughts of anger, rage and loathing. The eventual outcome was a merciful ending when the judge said "I grant the Plantiff (me) his motion for divorce according to the terms agreed upon and made part of the record."

So my point is that tease and denial can and are for me at least a powerful stimulant...Tease and Deinal creates disire, aching for her, want, lust, love....no anomosity, no loathing, no anger....just lust and love. It is a game, a delightful game...almost like the childhood game of hide and seek.....it's so much fun when we find what we are seeking..

No denial without tease is mean, viscious, non loving.....tease and denial now that is a different story....if you understand what I mean, if you understand the difference, if you understand how she can use her power by tease and denial, if you can understand this then you can understand the allure of tease and denial games...

If you can relate then you can know that last night when she played with me and the night before when she played with me and this morning when we awoke and I had that wonderful moring erection and she climbed on and rode it, wantonly, for her enjoyment and then got off and went and took a shower and before she left said, "You don't have to cum just because I fucked you," then you understand the difference between tease and denail and just plain denial.

Ladies don't forget to vote in the panty exposure poll...Comments to the poll are encouraged and appreciated but vote even if you do not comment.....

A new Poll

I have a new poll inspired by two blog posts. They both had to do with panties and their allure to men.

In one blog article it mentioned that Japaneese Men have taken up a new hobby of looking up skirts. Now I must confess that I have cast my eyes up a few skirts in my life. The majority of peeps was purely accidential on both my part and I am sure on the part of the lady too.

But you know, panties are so damn pretty its ashame they have to be hidden from view, and I am sure that on at least two times, glances up a skirt were perhaps accidential on my part but I'm sure well planned by the lady.

The first really deliberate time I remember happened in high school. My best friend and I helped a young lady change a tire on her VW bug. She wore a very short skirt. (They were very short in the 60's) and after we changed the tire, she opened her door, sat on the car seat, leaned back to "get her purse" opened her legs wide and I mean wide, skirt hiking up and showing off some cotton white panties....She asks, "How can I repay you two guys?" and we say almost in unison, "You already have."

The next really obvious time was when I was at Boston's Logan airport. I was at the food court and a very pretty flight attendant caught my eye....Another pretty flight attendant walked by and my eyes zoned in on her really tight across the ass skirt and as Im following her, the first Ms Cutie, opens her legs and gives me a giant flash. I looked at her, she at me and I just start to get up (hell even I know an invitation when I see it) and as I do, along comes another girl from Ms Flash's company sits down and I know Im outnumbered now and I sit back down. And that is probably why Im the cuckold husband instead of the "I do other wives guy."

So come on girls, fill out the poll and if you want as and added bonus leave us a comment.

Change Attempt & Poll Summary

Both my Wife and I appreciate all the comments on our last two postings. Thank you all so much.

I tired to change the look here a bit and noted that the font was almost unreadable. Im sorry if I made it more difficult to read.

I dont like the side bar look and was trying to darken up some of the font. I have looked at a few different templates and was not happy with any of them, so I came back to this style.

The first poll was done. The font on the poll was very difficult to read and that is what started the attempt at the change. It did not work out so well.

The poll was in my opinion a success. I received a total of 92 votes. Exactly 50% of the ladies said they have sex with other than their husbnad and 35% said they would if the could. The 35% number is close to what other studies have show is the rate of "infidelity" among married women.....I think the pol here refelects some fairly accurate numbers...The number having sex with men other than their husbands is a bit higher than most studies but then this blog would probably attract people more inclined to explore outside their marriage, so I would think the number here is fairly accurate when the "I would if I could" votes are tallied.

Thank each of you who took the time to do my little bit of reasearch. I'm sure that it probably would and could be challenged by scientific pollsters and as such I won't make any claims that it was scientifically accurate, but it is there for thought provoking discussion.

Finally, if anyone is interested, although the Wife and I have been playing with each other and she has had cause to give me a few erections, I have not found my way back into her pussy since her guy came over and deposited his boys in her...Not because she has denied me access but with work, schedules etc we just haven't made the big trip to the finish line....

The Other Side of The Door

I had been anticipating the encounter for a week. Being at a new job. it was a task manipulating being able to leave at exactly 12:30 before the first shift returned. But being that I had,as they say, a hot date, I made sure it got arranged. It was pouring rain-it was a frustratingly SLOW drive the 3 miles home. Finally home, it wasn't long before Mr. Shoulders showed up as planned. We walked down the hall & he entered the bedroom. I shut the door & slyly slipped a "Privacy Please" sign that had been swiped form a hotel on the outsire door knob, knowing that hubby may be home at any minute. Now the fun begins. What with the rain soaked bodies, it was steamy. It was only moments before our bodies were disrobed. He kissed me with hungry eyes. His cock was hard. His cock was large. I just love sucking that hard cock-swiping my tongue up & down the shaft & "tickling" the tip while sucking, sucking sucking. Then, kneeling over the bed, he shoved that cock into a tight pussy. He pounded away making it wetter & wetter. I moaned with each thrust. When it was over, there was a large deposit inside this well lubricated pussy. It was thrilligng knowing there would be "backwash" onto my lace panties & it would be a reminder for the rest of the day of the passionate lunch hour.

And yes, during the afternoon, sitting at my desk, my nose could detect that I had had SEX. How exciting! The anticipation, trying to coordinate a lunch hour, and having the smells subtley reminding me of the passion. A Fergie tune went through my head all afternoon---"The smell of your skin lingers on me now. You're probly on your flight back to your hometown.." Well...it is not the smell of skin & he isn't on a flight, (that is another story for another day) but it is the subtle smell of another man after he got back in his car & went home. A very sexy feeling.

It was especially a sexy feeling for me because I knew hubby would be coming home & would have to wait outside the door listening to the sounds of sex. And sure enough, he had gotten home during the encounter. He had a hard on the rest of the day thinking about what was denied him & what he could have later.

Mrs bdenied

Privacy Please!

I came home from work about mid afternoon, having gone in very early this morning. I was hungry and there was nothing to eat, so I undressed, jumped in the shower real quickly, got dried and dressed and headed off for somethingn to eat. I was gone about 45 minutes.....not far from home but traffic and heavy rain slowed things down..

I turn the cornor to my street and the garage door is up. her car is in the garage and a strange vehicle is parked where I park.

Heart pounding, I can sense what is taking place....I enter quitely, and walk from the garage, through the kitchen, family and living room and to our hall way. I hear loud moaning...I can hear her moaning, "Oh GOD THAT FEELS GOOD!" I can hear the distinct guttral sounds of a male and the noise that one would associate with pure outright sex. The male voice is grunting, not making words, just sounds, I can hear skin slap skin, I can hear her yell, 'IT'S YOUR PUSSY, ITS YOUR PUSSY, FUCK IT, IT'S YOURS TO FUCK! More male noise, grunting groaning....

I am staring at the door and the Privacy Please Sign! on the door. She is in our bedroom, probably on our bed and she is fucking someone and it is not me and she has a PRIVACY PLEASE! sign on the door. She does not want my intrusion and she knows I will respect it.....So what do I do? I get the camera and take a photo of the t sign because I can't go in and take a photo of what I want to take a photo of...that being her with her legs spread getting her cunt pounded by a hard cock....and from what I could hear, she was getting it good too.

So there I am with camera in hand and an erection practically popping through the denim of my jeans just mezmerized by her wanton display of sexuality..

I went and got a coke to drink and just listened as they continued to fuck, furiously from the sounds of things... Shortly thereafter I heard what sounded like the loudest guttral groan of a man cumming.....

They came out soon there after...She was again dressed for work, hair a bit mussed, lipstick smeared, with that I just got fucked look on her face. He shook my hand, and I note he is breating heavily, sweating and he is damp from his activities.....he has that "I just fucked your wife grin and she is grinning at him admiringly, as if to agree....I thought I even heard him say something about fucking another man's wife but I could not tell for sure..

He left. She tells me one of the girls at work asked her to go to lunch but she said she had to hurry home and the girl at work more or less states, "Oh you're going to get a nooner huh? My wife grins and says, "Yes, as a matter of fact I am."

If Only a weekend fantasy

Without going into a lot of details, this weekend saw me off and a special event taking place not far from where we live.

A co-worker wanted to attend and so did my wife and I...His wife was not interested so since he had to drive by our place to get to the event, we three agreed to share a ride...saved gas and parking fees.

He showed up and I must admit he is a good looking guy... They kind I knew she would find attractive...especially the way he was dressed (just jeans and a tight t-shirt) but I knew she was impressed.

We went to the event, stayed all day and I could tell by her reactions she was definitely enjoying his company. In all honesty, he is a devouted family man (yeah I know he has a penis) and I'm sure he would not entertain the thought of us doing her but I knew she entertained it and so did I..
I could envision her sandwhiched between us as we fucked her....

When he dropped us off, she and I went to a burger and that is when she said that he was "very doable." and she told me that at one point she had placed her hand on my thigh at the event and was thinking about doing the same to his thigh....I must have sensed the same because that is the precise time I was aware she really found him hot.

So anyway we wound up in bed later that afternoon and I was just wondering what fantasies went through her mind as I sunk into her lovely pussy....in any event it was a great afternoon and a lot of fun even if it was just a fantasy.

New poll

I thought I might try to put a poll on the blog...The question is for married ladies and it asks if they could would they have sex with someone other than their husband.

I get a lot of ladies to the site, so I assume they have an interest in the subject...Please take a moment and fill out the poll... besides in all the waiting for her to get laid, I had to write about something.

All is quite

Just a post to let you know things have been really quite on the cuckolding front. Work, jobs and no suitors coming around.

Since our night in the club I have only spoken to the co-worker one time and that had nothing to do with being in the club....

Perhaps something will happen soon......I sense she wants it too and I know I do...

Who will HNT

So I was visiting Alfie loves Emma and he had an interesting snippet about sending her photo to a men's mag to be posted in the "My Wife" section of said magazine. He mentioned that it was his fantasy to wonder if some man was going to masturbate to her photo.

Well I wonder myself is anyone masturbates to my own lovely lady. I know that she has taken several calls from one former fantasy guy and he jerks off to her voice. I find that very hot indeed..

So today I show a bit of a teasing upskirt I took of her when she was laying down on the bed just after we had come home from a nice day out. You will notice that the kitty does not have any panty covering and that is the way she had gone out in public. I always hope some lucky guy will get a glimpse up her skirt. I love thinking someone saw her exposed and may have gone home and jerked off.

So who will jerk off to this photo? I can only wonder and hope.