Not really ruined

IN the past year or so I have come across some sites that talk about ruined orgasms. I suppose what they mean is that the one who "ruins" the orgasm does so by removing stimulus at the exact moment a man begins to ejaculate, hence reducing the pleasure, inhibiting or reducing the orgasmic level and there fore making the ejaculation not as pleasant as it could be. There is even a couple who has a web site devoted to tease/denial and ruined orgasms.

Personally, I don't think one can have a ruined orgasm.....but I also have come to understand that a male can orgasm without ejaculating and can ejaculate without orgasm.....I know because I have been able to achieve either or both and have done so on many occasions. I often orgasm without ejaculation and believe me its intense and pleasant.

Recently, I have gotten fascinated with the concept of "ruined orgasm" and watching several videos of supposed "ruined orgasms" I have tried to duplicate them.

It's simple actually, stimulate the penis until an ejaculation is eminent and then just remove the stimulus and if timed just right, ejaculate cums out, its pleasant but there is NO ORGASM...
Milking the prostrate accomplishes the same thing but the sensation is different.

I have done this technique by myself and without mentioning who she is have discussed this with a fellow blogger.....she seems to think its hot too.

Well last night I was in the mood but my wife really wasnt as she had a tough day at work....so she offered to do something for me. I told her to try to just make me ejaculate without the orgasm...Now when she teases me and she senses Im about to pop, she will apply a lot of pressure basically choking off the ejaculation but it does not prevent me from having an orgasm or several actually.....so last night she just released her stimulation....timing wasnt good on the first few trys, the stimulation ended and no ejaculation....pleasureable nonetheless...she kept trying and eventually she released pressure, and a glob of cum oozed out...it did not shoot out like in a regular ejaculation and it was pleasureable but there was no orgasm whatsoever. It was really fun, we both enjoyed it and I loved the sensation....but more so was that she did it and not me......and this is what it more or less looked like

Privacy Please!

I came home from work about mid afternoon, having gone in very early this morning. I was hungry and there was nothing to eat, so I undressed, jumped in the shower real quickly, got dried and dressed and headed off for somethingn to eat. I was gone about 45 minutes.....not far from home but traffic and heavy rain slowed things down..

I turn the cornor to my street and the garage door is up. her car is in the garage and a strange vehicle is parked where I park.

Heart pounding, I can sense what is taking place....I enter quitely, and walk from the garage, through the kitchen, family and living room and to our hall way. I hear loud moaning...I can hear her moaning, "Oh GOD THAT FEELS GOOD!" I can hear the distinct guttral sounds of a male and the noise that one would associate with pure outright sex. The male voice is grunting, not making words, just sounds, I can hear skin slap skin, I can hear her yell, 'IT'S YOUR PUSSY, ITS YOUR PUSSY, FUCK IT, IT'S YOURS TO FUCK! More male noise, grunting groaning....

I am staring at the door and the Privacy Please Sign! on the door. She is in our bedroom, probably on our bed and she is fucking someone and it is not me and she has a PRIVACY PLEASE! sign on the door. She does not want my intrusion and she knows I will respect it.....So what do I do? I get the camera and take a photo of the t sign because I can't go in and take a photo of what I want to take a photo of...that being her with her legs spread getting her cunt pounded by a hard cock....and from what I could hear, she was getting it good too.

So there I am with camera in hand and an erection practically popping through the denim of my jeans just mezmerized by her wanton display of sexuality..

I went and got a coke to drink and just listened as they continued to fuck, furiously from the sounds of things... Shortly thereafter I heard what sounded like the loudest guttral groan of a man cumming.....

They came out soon there after...She was again dressed for work, hair a bit mussed, lipstick smeared, with that I just got fucked look on her face. He shook my hand, and I note he is breating heavily, sweating and he is damp from his activities.....he has that "I just fucked your wife grin and she is grinning at him admiringly, as if to agree....I thought I even heard him say something about fucking another man's wife but I could not tell for sure..

He left. She tells me one of the girls at work asked her to go to lunch but she said she had to hurry home and the girl at work more or less states, "Oh you're going to get a nooner huh? My wife grins and says, "Yes, as a matter of fact I am."

What feels better?

Yesterday I was feeling a bit horny so I asked her if she would like her pussy shaved. She must have been feeling a little horny too because she told me she had thought about that while taking her shower.

I told her I would open the "barbershop." Now for those who read this blog you know that shaving her pussy always leads to her pussy getting licked...sometimes it leads to a date that she is going to have as we always take care of the kitty before another guy enters that tight little puss of hers..but...yesterday it just lead to a shave and a pussy licking.

I love getting her all nice and warm with warm slightly hot wash cloth, then all lathered up with the Skintamate shave cream (especially formulated for a womans sensative areas) and then aferwards getting her off by mouth.

Unless she is faking and who can really know for sure, she cums rather quickly. Especially when she is horny and yesterday she was horny....and yes sometimes she squirts in my mouth as she can be a "female ejaculator."

Well as I could feel her start to cum I got really turned on and my old friend stood up to take a peek. After she came I just could not resist and I sent my friend to that spot we guys know as heaven or as close as we'll ever get here on earth....I fucked her hard, then soft and then hard and turned her around and took her doggy style and really pounded her pussy....Then I flopped her over and spread her legs and watched my cock go in and out of that tight pussy and it amazed me how tight it is as I looked down and show my cock squeezed by her pussy opening.

I started to screw more gently, more my style and we were kissing and I was nibbling and bitting (softly) at her neck. I was close to cumming but knew that today I would not, but rather just enjoy penetrating her.

She was talkative, telling me to fuck her, spread her legs and watch me go in an out...then....!!!!!!she said something she has never, ever said.....Sure she has told me how much she likes it but she never said it this way.....she said, "that feels good, but it feels better when you lick it.!" Wow....now to a lot of guys that would have been a real bummer...I mean a woman telling them their tounge feels better than their cock..

But....I know I am different...that fucking turned me on. Something I have always known I think and was so glad to hear it. I know that I have with one exception never gotten her off with my cock....I dont think I have ever gotten any woman off with my cock. but Im damn sure I have with my tounge...I would be willing to bet I have gotten off every girl I have ever gone down on...Unless they are all faking and lying about it. I think every girl I have done has said they really liked my mouth work but no girl including my wife has ever said I got them off with my cock......the fact that she just said it while we were having sex told me that what I have thought is true...when it comes to my cock or my mouth they would rather have my mouth....I dont think there was anything mean about what she said. I dont think it was meant to demean...it was just uttered in the height of a passionate moment and it really turned me on.......

HNT Today and Pondering the pool

Yes, it is I.....pondering what is to be.....she actually snapped one of me.....so feeling my oats, I thought I would post an HNT of me. It shows some but not much......

Actually I was trying to think of the angle to take when I was going to shoot her..(take her picture).

Today is thundery and rainy...First time in several weeks. Rotten day for it....You know why? Of course not! Her number one fantasy guy called and he has made arrangements to get into town for the night. He had to pull some strings.....she is to meet him at his Hotel tonight after work. She put on a lovely sun dress, a sexy thong, packed the toys into her overnight bag......packed a special pair of panties just for him, a photograph we recently got at an art fair when we went with some friends and kissed me good by.

I was out of town the other day....We have been experimenting with prostate milking. Its really neat. For those who have not tried it, by stimulating the prostate gland and ejaculate substance dribbles out of my penis..It is not an ejaculation, nor does it produce an orgasm,but hte feeling is pleasant, expect for the intrusion...well to make a long story longer, she had been doing a bit of teasing and denying,. remember last week she had her new fantasy guy over and if memory serves me I have not cum since then...I did put it in her and I have gone down on her but basically her cunt has been off limits to my cum since. We were going to do some milking last night when I arrived back from my business trip.

But when I suggest it, after shaving her pussy and going down on her, she just frankly said, "No, I want you to wait until after I see fantasy guy...." she actually changed her mind and postponed my release another day, jsut because she wants to save it up. She does not want me in her before she does him and we have both discussed that he does not either. He always asks her when she got it last and we think it makes him feel hot when she says to him that she saved her pussy just for him...strokes his ego I guess.

So I sit here typing this, with the stirrings of a hard on...horny.....wanting her pussy and knowing he is to get it tonight...Hopefully the storms wont fuck up the travel plans......Ill let you know.....if I am again a cuckold husband

The cable guy, the guest and Me

This happened a while back but I had never written about it for some reason and last night she and I were discussing the event and kinda smiling and remembering how hot it was when it happened.

I was at work and we were switching cable tv companies because of lousy service. Back when it first came into being there was only one choice and that was the vendor that won a lucrative contract from the local municipality.....Today just about anyone with equimpent can install the service including satellite companies, phone companies etc...but you aren't reading for that tidbit.

So I come home and there is a guy sitting on the stool in the living room and he introduces himself as X.. A guy pops up from behind the entertainment center we have and he introduces himself too. So right away I assume they are working together and that guy sitting on the stool is the supervisor and he is checking out the picture quality.

His name was the same name as one of her newer boyfriends. Now during the introduction she just smiled and I am thinking she is happy with the new service because earlier in the day I had called to see if the cable people showed up on time and she said yes and "he" was very knowledgeable and seemed to know his stuff well.

So anyway, I walk down the hall to the bedroom and it suddenly hits me. X is not part of the cable team. X is the new guy I had not met. She follows me down the hall a few minutes later and she is grinning from ear to ear. "Oh! is that X the X I think or is he......" She just starts to giggle and giggle like a school girl and she needs to say nothing..I now understand. She tells me he called earlier and wanted to come over but the cable guy was here and she told him to come at a certain time, thinking the cable guy would be gone.

Although very good at his job, he was very slow at it too it seems. Well, eventually, he gets around to the internet installation and he calls me into the office (we have an extra bedroom we use as an office) and asks me somequestion about the wireless card I have. I am technically challanged and dont know what he is getting at and we launch into a 20 min discussion on how my wireless operates.

In the meantime I am looking for the disk that runs the wireless and I cant find it, so I go back out to the living area to ask her if she had put my disks someplace. Can't find her...I go into the office and for some reason ask cable guy, "Hey, did you see my wife walk by." (our house is not that big) He says no and I poke my head into the hall way and it hits me, the guest bedroom door is closed and its never closed.

Ok, no rocket scientist am I, but I can surely figure it out now. About twenty minutes later while still engaged with the tech who is having a difficult time accessing my wireless, (we forgot I had it password protected) I hear the unmistakeable click as the bedroom door upens. I poke my head into the hall way and she looks at me and grins, he grins, I grin and she gives me the ok sign.

She hugs the "Supervisor" and he leaves. She later tells me the poor guy drove an hour to see her and had someplace to go at 4 and no one expected Mr Cable guy to be here that long....so the poor guy could not go home with a raging hard on....now could he..

We talked about it most of the day after the real cable guy left. It was hot. She did not provide any details but I did get the idea the she blew him and fucked him and sent him home or to where ever very happy.

I don't think he has seen her since and he had only seen her a time or two before that.. It was just one incident I had forgotten to ever mention.....

So there is my wife, cuckolding me, without telling me while we have the cable guy in the house....although the juicy details arent here I hope you guys find the incident interesting.....

And no, she did not offer up any pussy that night either....

Details 2

I wrote more about the details and somehow I hit a key and 'poof" they went away....into cyberspace somewhere...Hate it when that happens.

Basically I have all the details I know of...I have written them, and shehas not come forth with more details.

She did meet a guy yesterday and I think they made their way back here and had a good time together...She found this guy hot and attractive, I surmise she gave him a BJ and he came in her mouth....Dont know any more after that.

I would guess he fucked her too.......I did have some brief email correspondence with him a few weeks ago and said he could go for it if he wanted too....apparently he did.

We did a lot of snuggling last night but I did not get into her pants...and yes she played with me and I got hard several times but did not cum.

Im beginning to want to cum badly but I assume I will when she wants me too and Im not pushin git.

A walk in the Woods

When I was a kid, there was a wooded area not far from home. I have written about the girl in my neighborhood where I was first introduced to threesomes with my child hood friend "Charlie." If you remember the post the three of us played a game in a tent and I watched him fuck her,etc. Of course this was at night and it was always dark and hard to see.

One day she and I were alone and we went to the woods and wound up stripping in front of each other. I remember how hairy her pussy was and how little I could see of her since it was covered with hair. She gave me a bj for a feww minutes and we did some making out but I did not have any intercourse with her that day.

Well this weekend my wife and I took a walk through a nature preserve and we wandederd off the path and into the wooods. I just suddenly stopped took out my cock and told my wife to "Suck this now." It was not a question it was a "do it." she dropped to her knees and took me into her mouth. I went from soft to boing in about 10 seconds. She gave me a really nice bj and I gave her a warning by shouting "Im gonna cum," thinking or at least giving her the option of letting go. But she did not, and I exploded into her mouth. She took all but the last few drops and I saved them for her face.

It was a very warm day and the cum dried quickly. She wanted to wipe it off but I asked her to leave it there and we walked out of the woods, me feeling great and her with dried cum on her face. We walked past a couple on our way back to our car and I could not help but wonder if the other woman was going to suck him off in the woods too.

Doing Cathy-Finally

After a few dates with Cathy and my very pre-mature ejaculation, I went back to my duty station overseas with the Army. In a letter home I learned that Cathy had moved into my parents house for a temporary stay while she found a place of her own.

Cathy had graduated from a very well know Ivy League University (I wont say which one) and had a degree in something I wont mention either, but when she tried to get a job in her degree field she was told she was either overeducated for an entry position or under educated for any other position. Seemed she would need a Masters or better or maybe High school or less. Wow, she wound up as a cocktail waitress at a very famous celebrities night club. She was sexually harrassed by the manager and he eventually fired her for rejecting his disgusting advances.

Well I am overseas, we write to each other on occasion and I am under no illusions that she is not seeing other men and or fucking them. Suddenly, I find out she has moved to Georgia, and we continue to correspond but I don't remember why she moved.

I get a knock on my door one day, the Company Top Sergeant tells me to pack, "Your shit now." your going home! Turns out my Dad has had a major heart attack and is not expected to live, My Mom is alone and I am needed at home and the Red Cross has made the arrangments. 16 hours later Im back home.

My thirty day emergency leave is running out, my Dad is still very ill and I find out there is an Airforce base about 50 miles from home with an Army detachment there and I can get assigned on Temporary duty and apply for a "Compassionate Transfer." I do this and I am duing Mickey Mouse jobs in the procurement department of the Army installation but Im doing it damn well.

I have the weekend off and I call Cathy and we make a date, I will fly to Georgia as its cheap then for Military guys. The airfare was like 12 bucks. I am about to head for the airport when I am told to report to the Company Commander. He tells me the Army in its infinite wisdom says I cant stay there and I get orders to head back overseas and be there in 36 hours. Holy shit Batman....MY plane tickets that I bought are down the tubes and since I got myself assigned on my own the army aint paying for transport back overseas, as that will be on my dime. The Red Cross says your on your own kid and I have like 50 bucks to my name and the plane tickets are like 500 back to where Im going and thats on military fares.

So me I get this brilliant idea to go to Charleston, S,C. where the overseas replacement station is located and catch a ride with them.

Four hours later Im in Charleston and I am waiting to get put on a transport. I find out it will take me about 24 hours to catch one leaving me about 8 hrs to get to my Company making me very close to being AWOL... since my 36 hrs is right on the money.

Fuck it I call Cathy, tell her my problem and she says, no problem she will drive the 2 hrs from Georgia to Charleston. She does....we spend 20 of my 50 on a hotel room.

Ten minutes later she is stripped down to some really sexy red lace panties, and I have her titties in my mouth, my hand in her pants and a hard on like a rocket ship. I get the panties off and suddenly it hits me. I have never had a girl sit on my face and its something I want so I say, "God Cathy,sit on my face." WHAT?!" She says, "Sit on my face please.! She does and I am in heaven....She grinds her pussy all over my mouth and not only did she become the first girl to sit on my face she became the first girl that ever squirted in my mouth. I did not know what that was and thought she peed in my mouth and I was disgusted and then I thought, fuck it that was cool. It was years later I learned that girls can squirt. I just thought she was kinky....

We spent the day fucking and we had a really great time. I did not have the pre mature problem and harware worked just fine. Next morning she dropped me off at the airport and I headed back over seas. I leaned that I could sign in at any military installation to keep from being AWOL and I did at the Military office at JFK airport, where they sent a missive to my company that I was in transit and not an AWOL deserter in time of war....whew that was a load off my mind.

So I get back to my unit and a week later Cathy sends me an invitatiion to her wedding......

Is it the end

This blog could become real boring real soon. Let me explain. On my way to the airport to start my trip today, she called me and said her main guy called her and wanted her to drive to his place to fuck.

She thought that could be risky and we find out he is moving to another state, his wife has gone and he is home alone. They both agreed it might be too dangerous for him and the had some good phone sex according to her.

He has plans to see her on tuesday before his move becomes final and on occassion he can get to Florida where we live. We can only hope it will happen more often that not but her four year plus hiatus with him may be comming to an end.

I am surely saddened by this and I know she is, but she wants a guy to replace him and she has told me this.

Also she and I had some great going away sex ourselves both yesterday and today but she told me she did not want me to cum and even though she did not say it, I suspected that it was because she was hoping he might call her and they may fuck.

Well if he does call Tuesday I hope they have really fantastic sex. I almost wish I were home so I could see or feel his cum pouring out of her. We had already agreed that she was not going to give me any the next time he came in her and I have commented on that before.

Well I want to continue this blog and I want to continue to have my wife do other men and I want to continue being a cuckold husband. Now how many can say that?

Drought Ends

We did our littles shaving ritual last night. I call it opening the barbarshop. I shave her nice and smooth and then I get a reward by serving her orally.

She manages to cum quite quickly this way. I think its a combination of the hot soapy water, the shaving cream I massage into her mounds and the attention I pay to her.

After I shave her I use a warm wash cloth to clean away the left over shave cream, and the warmth to sooth her. Then I apply some baby oil to keep razor burn to a minimum and keep those bumps away. (it works too) and then I have fun with her with my mouth.

After she came she was nice to me and gave me a nice hand job. I came all over her and me too. She did get a call yesterday with an out of area number but no message was left. We assumed it was her main guy.

Today she went to work for her last day. She wore a nice sun type dress and no panties nor a bra. I love it when she goes to work this way and I always hope some male customer or co-worker will catch a glimpse up that dress hem.

warm summer breeze

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Dinner last night

We went to dinner with our friend last night. He has had sex with her on a couple of occasions and even took her one time to a "swinger" type party while I was out of town.

He is a very nice person and he and I both share some common interests in occupations, politics, travel etc. He is a teacher now and will be going to Europe to teach English in a country over there.

Since he is leaving at the end of the month we thought we'd get to dinner and chat. He sat with my wife and on occasion would run his hand over her thigh and slip it up her flimsy flirty skirt. We came home had coffee and chatted some more and he continued to feel her a little. Time slipped by and soon it was pretty late and he thought it best to go since we had to get up for work today. Life gets so in the way of play. He gave her a nice hug and a wonderful squeeze of the butt as he left.

She and I sat on the couch and watched some TV. HBO had some documentaries on the Whore House in Nevada and it was followed by Pornucopia about the porn industry in San Fernando Valley. As we watched she got me hard several times, getting me quite close to cumming but stopped short of doing so.