Taking care of business

Sitting around watching TV last night we were playing with each other as we do almost every night. My libido has been low lately which I take more as a sign of age than as lack of desire. She gave me that look said something and I said, "If you keep talking like tat, I'll drag you into the bedroom and lick your pussy."

Her eyes lit up and she says, "OK!" I did......She came....I got enormously turned on, my friend grew hard, and found his way into her.

She groaned she said she wanted my cum....She got it....Our sex life is still hot, alive and well. I wonder if she had fantasies of her main guy, but I can only get so far into her mind.

missed call

Late Tuesday her phone rang . It was very late and we were asleep and she did not hear the phone and by the time I roused her and got her to try to answer it, the call was missed. It had an unknown name in the id block and we assumed her main guy was calling but he left no message. She never calls him back just in case he is at home. She does not want to create any problems for him.

Yesterday a friend who lives up north called and will be visiting us during July. I most probably will spend a night or two in the guest room while he is here.

Other than that things are fairly slow.

Bummer Monday

Well I got back from NY last night with hot thoughts of her going off with the main guy to spend a night fucking and sucking in a hotel room. He calls her about 10pm and says he can't make it. Seems he is having some problems on the home front.

I was really bummed out as I get very excited about her getting laid. Oh well, I'm sure he will call her again. It would be nice though to have her find a fuck buddy who is steady, reliable and a great lay for her. One who comes around and has no difficulties getting to her on a regular basis.

I mean whats the sense being a devoted cuckold husband if I'm not getting cuckolded on a regular basis.

Calling all Condoms

Yesterday afternoon her main guy calls her and wants to make sure she is available on Monday. She assures him she is, and he tells her he is driving down the street thinking of her\. He is on the speaker phone and he is whacking off as he drives. She goes into the bedrooom and they have phone sex....I can hear some but not all of it.

Later before we go to a party at a friends house, I do my shave ritual. After shaving her, bringing her off with my mouth I slipped on a condom and fucked her. We want her pussy nice and empty for her buddy on Monday.

I leave for NY today......I'll spend Monday night alone as I come back Monday late afternoon, but she will be with him. Woiw I also came twice in two days.....I wonder how long she will keep me out of her puss after he does her.

warm summer breeze

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Dinner last night

We went to dinner with our friend last night. He has had sex with her on a couple of occasions and even took her one time to a "swinger" type party while I was out of town.

He is a very nice person and he and I both share some common interests in occupations, politics, travel etc. He is a teacher now and will be going to Europe to teach English in a country over there.

Since he is leaving at the end of the month we thought we'd get to dinner and chat. He sat with my wife and on occasion would run his hand over her thigh and slip it up her flimsy flirty skirt. We came home had coffee and chatted some more and he continued to feel her a little. Time slipped by and soon it was pretty late and he thought it best to go since we had to get up for work today. Life gets so in the way of play. He gave her a nice hug and a wonderful squeeze of the butt as he left.

She and I sat on the couch and watched some TV. HBO had some documentaries on the Whore House in Nevada and it was followed by Pornucopia about the porn industry in San Fernando Valley. As we watched she got me hard several times, getting me quite close to cumming but stopped short of doing so.

Phone calls

Last night her boyfriend called her and they had a (from the sounds of it) a great phone sex session. She went into the bedroom to have privacy and I could not hear a lot of what was said.

She did come out at one point afterwards and said something like, "he thinks I'm lucky to have a boyfriend with suck a huge cock." While he probably said that, I also believe it is her way of letting me know that he is not lacking in the between the legs department.

He did tell he he wants to see her this coming Monday. We were in bed sleeping about 1 am and he called back still wanting to continue what they had done on the phone. I think it is hot that he thinks of her as he is having his sexual fantasies.

Again, she played with me a lot during the night getting me erect, letting it go soft, bringing me to full staff and then not finishing. I love this tease of hers and I think she does too or she would not do it.

I'm off to NY on businesss but should be back sometime tomrrow. We may have dinner Friday night with a friend of ours who has done her in the past but have no idea if they will do anything. We just want to see him before he goes off to Europe on a years assignment.

Relief?

On June 1st I wrote that the last time she and I had sex where I actually had an ejaculation was May 12 when we went on our trip. The day we returned May 19 was late in the afternoon and at 8am I had to blast off for a business trip to Hawaii.

Well I was gone until the 28th and got in very early in the morning of the 29th and on the 30th I had to go to Dallas. So as best as I can tell I have not now had an ejaculation since May 12 and it is now June 18th.

Don't get me wrong, she and I have had sex, oral and penetrative but I have not cum myself but she has. I like the tease and the denial. Well its more like I need it than like it. For me the journey is far more enjoyable than the destination.

I wrote about reading her an erotic story and her playing footsie with my cock. Last night she played with me for a while, got me hard, let me get soft, got me hard etc etc. We went to bed early last night just before 11pm. She played with me under the covers and I got very erect. I was very leaky but she said she was glad she could play with me without an adgenda. Me too.....I suppose I could ask her to get me off and she would and If I really wanted to take her with penetration she would let me. No problem there, but I much prefer to have her choose the time and the place and when and if I do cum.

I just wonder if this is part of what being cuckold is all about. I think it is and perhaps one of the reasons why I am what I am. Right now it is a very horny turned on cuckold who has no iead at all when he may cum. I could do myself but wont.

I also mentioned to her reading Emma Kelly's blog about her husband being in chastity while Em was out doing her Marnie. My wife smiled and I could see she was pleased when she said, "Yeah, that' s a great idea." If Im around next time her main FB comes for her perhaps I will be like Scott. Waiting in chastity.

shaving ritual

Last night we did our little shaving ritual. I call it opening the barber shop. I get some nice very warm almost hot water. A wash cloth and my shaving equipment.

I place a towel on the bed, later her pussy with a ladies shaving cream, ( I like the babby poweder smelling one the best) and after getting her nice and relaxed with the warm wash cloth that I soak in the hot water I take the razor and carefully shave her pubic area. I get her nice and smooth.

Shaving her labia is not easy as the skin is wrinkled and has lots of fols but that is typical of labia. She has lovey pudendum and looks wonderful with a shaved puss.

Then I spread a little J&J baby lotion on it to keep razor bumps from forming (this reallyworks too) and then I devoure her with my mouth. Although she always squirts with her main guy she will only do so when I go down on her and from what I understand not nearly as much. However; as she came she pushed into my face very hard and squirted a lot of her juice down in my mouth and down my throat.

We snuggled in bed for the next hour or so with her gently stroking my cock. I got very, very leaky but she did not try to get me off and I did not ask her too as I like it when she decides if I do or not and I could tell last night was not to be my night. I have not cum in over a week now even though we have been intimate and she has. I even managed to put my penis inside her and felt her swollen pussy from having just come. Very hot and loving night.

Reading erotica

Recently I was on a trip that took me to Hawaii. It was business and my wife was not with me. Being in Hawaii as a single man and a cuckold one at that is no fun as everyone there is a married couple. Many of whom are on honeymoons or anniversaries. Talk about feeling lonely! Well I do what I always do, I read everything I can about cuckold relationships and erotica in general.

Bought a nice book on erotic fantasies for couples at the Borders books in Honolulu. One story was about a wife who brings a strange man into her hotel room and fucks him while her husband watches from a partially closed closet door.

Hot story! I wrote about my own wife meeting a sailor and giving him head on the beach while I lurked nearby. So the story in the book and our own experience were quite similar.

Last night there was not much on TV so as I sometimes do, I read my wife the story from the book. As I did I got a very nice erection that she played with using her feet. I like it when she gives me a foot job. Something very erotic about it. She did not get me off and I don't think she wanted too.

We talked about her cuckolding me with other men after the story. She really enjoys her relationship with her main guy, the one I have never met. We both agreed that his has worked out for the best that I have not met him and will not.

Well thats all for now. Keep reading and keep leaving your comments

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Back at home

While I was gone the wife'
s number one guy called her and said he was going to get with her on Monday. She was at work when he called and there are others around or near her desk when he does. I would love to see their reactions as I am sure they think she is "cheating on me." Funny they could handle a "cheat" but if she were to tell them she cuckolds me and I know about it and approve, they would be in utter shock. Oh well I do rather like the idea that they think she is cheating on me. It just adds to the enjoyment of being cuckold.

I got really excited thinking she was going to be with him and as we had discussed, she would not do me and save herself for him. I was also excited thinking about him cumming in her and filling her up. That thought is very hot for me.

Last night (my first night back) we had watched Leno and had just turned the lights off to go to sleep and her phone rings. It is him. I am now really excited because he just randomly calls her whenever he feels like it. She is always on call for him and when he calls she literally runs for the phone and her eyes light up with a real happiness.

Well he tells her he is unable to make it Monday and I hear her say she is disappointed because she really wants his "big dick." It is exciting yet odd to hear the wife say to another man that she wants him. Odd because she says it and odd because I like it.

Perhaps we will go to a party this Saturday. One like I have described before in other posts.

Now for those that want to know about my life as a cuckold and dont particulary want to read social commentary, stop now because what follows is social commentary with only a slight twist on cuckolding.

The original meaning of cuckold was a man whose wife had other lovers but the term comes from the cuckoo bird who steals the nest of other birds along with the young.

Raising another mans child without knowing it is another mans child is the ultimate definition of a cuckold.

On my trip which took me to Guatemala in Central America I was at a brand name American Hotel. There are several in Guatemala with well known names and I wondered if what I saw at my hotel happens at the other American Brand name hotels also.

What I saw is this. Lots and I mean lots of Americans were there buying and I do mean buying babies. Mostly girl babies of indigenous Indian ancestory. It seemed to be a big business. I saw people sign contracts and actually hand over US dollars to take their mostly girl babies home with them. I don't know how they get throught the legaliteis for the United States immigration or for that matter Guatemalan law.

So ultimatley these couples are for whatever their reason adopting babies. I suppose that the couples who do so do it for love and legitimate reasons. I suppose also that the babies will be better off living in America rather than on a mountain top of some active volcanoe without running water or electricity. But why just girl babies? Selling girls because they have less value than male babies I suppose. I was profoundly upset by this practice. The exploitation of the mothers as I am sure they get little if any of the money. I also wonder if the mothers are not forced to pop out a baby a year for sale to some wealthy gringo from the Norte. How much choice is involved.

From what I could see the new adoptavie Mothers were obviously happy, giddy and you could read it on their faces. The fathers on the other hand looked perplexed. Concerned, worried even. I wonder what their inner emotions were. You could see the Maternal instincts of the new Moms. Were the new Dads as happy. I did not see it on their faces.

So with my mind working the way it does, I wonder: Are these men now "cuckolds?" No, not the old traditional definition but the modern definition.

Sorry for the intense social commentary but I had to say something about it. Now back to the erotic land of my being a cuckold husband. Hooray for the women who do and the men who love them.

The wife and me

I have to go out of the country for a few days and today we went to look at some new housing as we are thinking of selling our place and getting something new.

She wore a flimsy sun dress with no panties or a bra and as we were in the real estate office she was leaning over the table top mock up of the housing development and her dress was tight across her ass. I got really horny looking at her and how pretty she is. So when we got home I tossed her on the bed spread her legs and went down on her.

After she came I put my penis in her and gave her a good pussy pounding, but I did not come. I told her that her main guy might call this week and he should have a nice clean pussy to do. She just smiled and her eyes twinkled.

Well Im off to Central/South America and hopefully when I come back in a few days I will have another cuckold exploit to write about.

cuckolding friends

I have some friends who live in "upstate NY". Seems anyone not living in New York City lives in "upstate." Well she is a cuckoldress and he is like me a cuckold. He will like me on occassion bed another woman but like me he also has a difficult time getting really erect for anyone other than his wife. Seems neither of us have trouble with our spouses. I for one have take massive amounts of cialis, viagra and Levitra and no good result.

I think guys like my friend and I are just genetically programmed to be cuckolds. He and his wife are going to a party in a southern state in July where she will be literally taken by up to five or seven men. He will be watching. This is a fantasy of hers and it is going to come true. I do not believe my wife would ever want something like that and actually while in fantasy land it may be fun to think about, I think both she and I would prefer the steady one or two extra boyfriend scenario like we have now.

Correspondence

Nothing really to report. She probably wont see number one guy for a week or so. He did call again this morning for anoher phone session. He seems to vasciallate between calls and actual get togethers. He lives a 100 miles or so from us so it is difficult to get them hooked up too often wich might take some of the excitement out of it anyway.

I have been corresponding with our friend who lives in New England. He wants to come by in the summer for a visit. He will probably take her into the bedroom while I spend the night in the guest room or he may just take her to a hotel while I stay home wondering what they may do. I will let everyone know when it happens.

I have been enjoying reading several blogs regarding hot wifeing and cuckolding. I especially enjoy Mrs Kelly's Playhouse. She write sincerely, and to the point.

It amazes me how many blogs with what is supposd to be a sexual content never mention anything sexual. Lots of bloggers just write to hear the keys tap. Since I do not want to be one of those bloggers Im outta here. Hopefully I will have something to write about soon enough.

erotic phone calls

The last time my wife and I had sex was on May 12th when we were on vacation. Although we played with each other sexually during the entire week, that was the only time we actually fucked. Our whirlwind trip just took up too much time and energy, with all the sightseeing, walking and travel we found we were fairly exhausted at night. She loves playing with me and did so every night and I did the same for her but taking things to orgasm was not in the cards. I love the tease anyway. Well when we got back, it was about 2pm and the very next morning I had to head out on a business trip for another 10 days. I really miss her fondling me and although I was eager for sex when I got back I wanted her to just play and get me really worked up as the tease is wonderful. In any event her lover had called her the day I left and they spent the night together as I have already posted.

I also posted that I messed up her fantasy a bit when I fucked her after he came in her the time before our vacation. I promised her I would not make that mistake again and said that prior to her doing him and just after I would abstain from her. She smiled as she liked that and agreed it would be hot for her, adding that she hoped it was ok with me too. Of course it was.

Last night she was playing with me and I am about to burst from as of last night 20 days without an ejaculation. Anyway he called her to have some good phone sex with her and he was really happy about their last encounte. From what I could gather from the one side Iheard he was aksing her about cumming in her mouth last time and how much he wanted her next time too. She had a good phone session with him and was very happy after she hung up. We discussed her sex with him and how much she likes it and how much she likes having him cum in her. We agreed again that there will be none for me prior to his meeting her and none afteward either. He always gives her a couple of day notice when he is on his way to do her. Well if I was horny before the call I was aching afterwards. Just another day or so to wait and then sweet relief.