Grils and Playtoys

I just wrote a post about thinking about doing myself and holding back as I like the edge thing. The post inspired a comment from Curious Girl who by the way has a great blog of her own. Thanks CG for the inspiration.

In any event she mentioned having had a brief relationship wherein she enjoyed playing with the guy and not getting him off right away.

I have found that almost every girlfriend who I have been with enjoyed playing with my boys in some fashion and I learned that they did not mean for their playing to lead to some type of ejaculatory release nor was it an invitation to immediately try to... put bluntly...fuck them.

Like most guys when I was in my teens and learningn to appreciate sex with girls, I like most guys called these girls "Prick Teasers" and frankly that was not a compliment

As I aged and matured I began to appreciate these "Prick Teasers" a whole lot more, eventually coming to realize they were not bad people for wanting to play with the guys..... and just play for plays sake. After all, every time a boy takes out his baseball or football he isnt playing in the World Series or Super Bowl.

The first time I had a girlfriend who actually admitted that she just wanted to play with them was really mind boggling; but I was estatic. By that time this had become a recurring fantasy for me.

We were at my place and we were in my bed sans clothing just wathcing a late night tv show. I have always slept naked and most girls who I have been with eventually join me in my au-nautral sleep habits....I have also lived where it is very warm most of the year. (That helps)

In any event she looks over at me and says, "I want to play with your cock and balls but I really don't want you to cum or try to fuck me: I just want you to know that before I start; if that's not ok, I won't play with them at all!"

Shocked, but in heaven because somehow my fantasy was about to come true even though she and I had never discussed this fantasy before. Sure I had girlfriends who had played with them before and then had to listen to me whine, "Well why did you start if you were not going to finish......boo hoo....!! etc. etc

You ladies out there can probably relate, especially to the whinning...

Of course, I agreed, "Ok, if that's what you want......" So she started, slowy, gently, then she was like a kid in a toy store, she was squeezing, kneading, pulling, twisting and just generally enjoying her self. If she sensed I was about to go over the edge, she would back off. She was very good at playing.... getting me close and then closing down the sensations. She played with me for well over and hour. She cooed and giggled: She looked and examined and she just generally had a great time. She looked down and said, "Oh, my goodness, your leaky. She put a finger on the honey like pre cum substance and touched it to her tounge; then she did the same and touched it to my tounge which I at first resisted but then accepted......she continued playing for another 20-30 minutes and then said, "Well its time for us to go to bed," she kissed me rolled over and went to sleep and left me with a raging hard on....I snuggled her and soon drifted off to sleep myself...

No I was not frustrated. I was quite relaxed and really enjoyed it......She and I eventually drifted apart for reasons other than my not coming and I eventually met my wife who does the same thing for me.....and for herself too.