Thursday, December 18, 2008

She wants to know

A couple of posts ago, I mentioned that female friend and I had a conversation about orgasm denial etc.
I was speaking to my wife the other day and she thought it would be a good idea to have a poll and see what the readers thought about this subject.

She was interested to see if the men or women would have different ideas.....so with that in mind I have posted a survey...One for the ladies and one for the men to keep the results apart and easy to understand...so please play along and add your answer...comments are also appreciated....

17 comments:

Ms. Lily said...

I was going to take the poll but my answer is not there... I would say... as often as SHE wants ;)

Hope you are both enjoying your holiday season!

Anonymous said...

So far, it looks like the guys are voting more than anyone else.

bdenied said...

MsLilly, thanks we will record it anyway....I probably should have put that response in.....but visit it again and since its not there put in the next closest thing.

Ronald: Seems that way...we will see how it plays out in a few days

rage said...

I voted! I voted! I voted that both should be allowed to cum as much as they want.

That's going to wear you both out!

curiousgirl said...

i vote on feast or famine...either no orgasms at all for any length of time deemed appropriate OR repeated orgasms on command...as in one right after the other after the other...i have experimented with this on a person before and it is very intense...of course, it took a while to get to that point where he had put that kind of trust into me and recognized who was in control...

cg

(i'll vote anyhow based on your choices, tho!)

bdenied said...

Rage: Thanks for the vote and the comment: Glad to have you at the blog.....and appreciate the participation

CG: That's an interesting comment and thought. I understand your pov....thanks for taking the time to make such a thoughtful comment

rage said...

The pleasure is all mine!

Kittie Kate said...

Well, I like to see you cum, but I know your relationship. If she says no, it's good for you.

bdenied said...

Kitie Kate: So how many times did you vote for?

MyKey said...

Oh my friend, you better hope mrs b doesn't pay attention! That's a lot of votes for low numbers!

M

Rogue said...

i am new to orgasm denial from my.. tantric goddess.. it drives me crazy.. brings up all kinds of emotional stuff in my mind..... the orgasm denial from my wife is different, apathy really... anyway from

bdenied said...

MYKEY: She is very curious as to the results....I have to review thm too.

Rogue: Denial without tease is just nasty, I have written about it before.

Milliscent said...

bdenied,

It seems that both men and women delight in the idea of your suffering!

Alas, I marked 12, but perhaps 9 would be better. Double digits seems awfully nice!

bdenied said...

Ms M thank you for the vote and the comment.....

Kittie Kate said...

This is the thing...

You didn't have the poll choice I would have said. I would have said not how many times you want, but as many times as she allows you to.

curiousgirl said...

wow...the results are so interesting...so many men said only 12 times a year??...

cg

bdenied said...

Kittie Kate I think you have a valid point but do not dispair as it turns out that way anyway.....

CG: You are an astute observer and I have written my analysis of the poll.....Perhaps men are more into this than you might think....

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