A post from My wife

(The following post is from a note my wife wrote to Emma regarding a posting at her blog. I asked my wife if I could post it here as so many have requested a posting from her or her perspective....so what follows is from her key board and it is reposted in its complete form with no editing on my part.
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Oh my gosh! I am astounded at the similarities between your blogs and my life happenings.

My hubby has been reading your blog for some time now and has enjoyed it. He tells me about it from time to time. He is one of those hubby's who really does enjoy me getting it on with another guy. At first it started out as 3-somes--although he slowly but surely got me to do it, not me getting him to agree to it. We did do some 3 some get togetehrs--but my criteria was it had to be a guy in uniform--police, fire, military. We did do some 3 somes with a couple of police & a fireman (the police were far better from my female perspective!) But, I really am the old fashioned type, but have come to enjoy the before hand planning & excitement of it all. & I have come to realize hubby really really is OK with it--his hard ons tell me so! (I am so used to guys NOT wanting to know about other men. It was hard for me to get used to)

I managed to meet , as you call it, a "high powered" guy--but mine was military. He managed to find me & wanted no part of doing me with another man in the room--he didn't even really want to know he was doing another man's wife (something to do with not doing another fellow officer's wife.) As it has progressed over the last 4- 1/2 years, we have met sporadically. He calls more than we get too see each other--when he is on a trip or has been doing some high power "stuff. he will call me to get him self off--he says the voice "helps" him. We have fucked in his truck. We have fucked in my car. We have fucked in hotels (sometimes at his company expense & twice at mine). He has managed to get up to my house on several occasions..I remember the first time he came here & what a thrill it was to have him stay the night. We have had several of those. It has been an exciting 4+ years & I have come to enjoy being his fuck buddy. We do not chit chat (except a little about his trade, since both he & my hubby have the same type of job) We have a good time fucking.

Last fall he moved to another state--but has managed twice now to get to my area. He stayed at my house once since the fall (I kicked my hubby out so my "boyfriend" could stay the night!) & right before New Years I stayed the night with him at a hotel. What he did not know was my hubby was in a room 3 doors away! That was totally by coincidence! I knew he was getting into town at a certain time and I was to drive down to a certain hotel...so my hubby & I went to the hotel & checked in before the designated time.) There I was trying to get to sleep after all the fucking knowing my husband was 3 doors down probably with a huge hard on! hubby & are are still laughing about that one!

The time I kicked my hubby out, I knew when the guy was going to be here--and knew he was stopping at a certain store before hand. My hubby (a former policeman) went out & "found" him on the road & followed him to the store, then to our place. This was just a couple hour get-together--so after he left hubby came back & we had a great fuck that night! What a blast!

ANYWAY! The similarities are you have a fuck buddy that your husband known about & has gone on for years. You have grown fond of him, and I totally underdstand that. I thought I was kind of weird--loving my husband but having feelings for this other fun guy.

It has satisfied 2 fantasies of mine. Wanting to fuck a certain type guy, which happened.( I still can;t believe it--he found me on line & it just went from there) & being a call girl. This has kind of morphed into that-although I don't get paid. But he calls me whenever he has a particular need & I help satisfy him! The calls come in at any time of day or night--2,3 4AM...then have to drive to a hotel at 4 in the morning, fuck, then leave for work at 7. So I guess I am his personal call girl.

Since December, my hubby took a job in another state & we are going to move. So, now a days I am never sure I will ever see this guy again--this last time I made sure we had a great big hug & I told him it has been a lot of fun--me not knowing about the trials & tribulations in his life & me not telling him mine. It has been a little sanctuary of fun where I can forget about my problems. He asked me how long we have known each other & said it doesn't seem as long as the 4 1/2 years. We have developed a fondness for one another, even with out talking or going out to dinners or lunch. I have come to like him. Although, when he told me he moved, I deleted his phone # from my cell phone. I was surprised at how sad I felt, but did not cry about it. It was like, oh. Oh well-it's been a fun ride! Now the ride is over & it is time to go home.

He has called twice since New years. My hubby, who is a very smart & intuitive guy, says my buddy will find a way to get to us some how, some way.

Thanks for listening! & Thanks for your blogs!

Modern Cuckolding

Oh if there were only magazines such as the cover to the left. This one was especially true for us this holiday as I have already written. She loved me but fucked her boyfriend. We have had two of us do her at once. She has denied me orgasms, and I dont know about the tips but we have probably touched a few here.

I also got a nice letter from Scott over at Emmas blog. I shared a post Emma had written about her Mr Big with my own wife and how much the two girls think alike and how much they have come to actually like their fuck buddies.

I was very happy when my wife told me there is no way she is going to give him up.

And I dont remember if I mentioned it but her number two guy came over the other day and did her while I remain in my room a thousand miles away at the new job.

Happy cuckolding ladies.

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January 15, 2008
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Hotels, offices and Cuckolding

I called her today and she was at her office and she told me that: 1. She had met a very hot construction worker who was doing some work around her office building. He had some boxes that she thought might be good for our move to the new State.

She said she would like to fuck him and that he seemed very interested in her hanging around and basically flirting with her.

Then she mentioned that she had a date with her new FWB, and that she was meeting him at our place.

I called and she said he had just left. I did not get a lot of details except she said she had forgotten just how damn good looking he was...She did tell me that she enjoyed getting laid and he had told her it had been a long time for him. I know she does him bareback because she did come home dripping with his cum one night and I dont see any reason she would change now.

Finally, the photo on the right. No its not her but whoever she is (I stole it off the web) is obviously a very hot lady and she is obviously at a hotel. It reminded me of a few short weeks ago when I spent the night in a hotel room while she went next door and slept with her number one FWB.... She is such a lovely hot slut when she wants to be and lately not much has held her back. The site I got this from indicated that the lady in the photo was cuckolding also so I thought it appropriate and besides...aint she hot.

Lastly, it also reminds me that next week she is meeting an old high shcool buddy at his hotel ina city not far from our own home as he is in town on business. She said she knew she had the green light to do him and I told her there was a 99% chance he would invite her to his room. Do I have any takers.

She is also not going to tell him I am in the know about this as she wants him to think she is fooling around on me. Something about that adds to the excitement of being cuckolded by her.

And when we move we have found out he comes to our new city on business a few times a year. Now that seems very promising to me.

I will of course let you all know when I find out.. but do not expect too many graphic details as she rarely gives them out, especially when its long distance cuckolding as it is now. Oh yeah and by the way I have had none since she left and no self indulgence either...I think if I did a few special female readers might get a bit riled up. Happy cuckolding all...

Date Upcoming

She said she has a date with her new FWB.. The one who has come around since number one moved out of state. This will be her third or fourth time with him. I am reluctant to write anything about it as it seems when I do, the guy will be a no show. But we will see what happens.

I thought the psudeo mag cover to the right illustrated what is going on pretty well.....enjoy and more later. I did not get out of training class until early this evening and am running behind in studying for tomorrow...gotta run

I am sad

I am sad because my love had to get back on the airplane and leave to go back to our other home and take care of business while Im here on the new job getting us established here.

We had a wonderful sexy sex filled weekend and I can tell you all this with confidence. Even though she will have sex with other men, our love for each other is stronger than 99.9% of monagamous couples. We just share an intimacy that few others could even know.

I am not sad because she may go home and fuck someone. I am sad because I miss her. It aches. it hurts and I want it to end soon.

The sooner we can be together again is too long a wait for me. It was hard to keep my eyes dry as we parted at the airport and I know she held some back too.

Oh yeah and as I was printing her boarding pass yesterday, her number one guy called and she got him off via phone, so for those of you who think we dont play while together think, think again. We just really miss each other.

A weekend visit

This was from our photo session taken on the beach. I was trying to get her skirt back lit in the sunlight and wanted a nice shilouette showing. Having people in the back ground was even a bit more exciting knowing that they might possibly see through this flimsy little flirty skirt. It did not come out quite the way I had planned but what the heck thought Id post it anyway.

She is flying out to visit me this weekend. I am excited as I start some intense training next week. I think she is so cute and hot but then I am a bit biased..

She told me her number one FWB called her again last night to chit chat and he never does that. Over the past almost five years they have developed a nice friendly relationship. They actually like each other but the main point of their relationship is hot passionate sex.

Have a good weekend and consider this HNT since I missed yesterday. It will have to be HNF...