Friday, September 11, 2009

Thanks but No thanks

She got a call from a guy yesterday who she had met many, many, many months ago.. They had coffee and he said he wanted to become her fuck buddy. She found him somewhat attractive and since her guy is not all that regular she thought she could use some steady strange cock.

Months go by and she hears not a peep from him until yesterday and he says his, schedule, his situation, his family, his this and that have kept him from calling and all of a sudden its longer than he had thought...Now this from a guy who said he was going to be a regular FWB....she said, "Nah, I dont think so.."

and if he is reading, she wonders where he is as its been so long since she has heard from him....has he given up and lost interest? She enjoys a fuck buddy and the freedom to fuck whomever and whenever and you'd think that would be easy but no its really not...

10 comments:

NoOne said...

Ugh, I hate guys like that. I have a theory that a lot of men get off on the idea of doing something of that nature but when it comes down to it, they are just pussies and want to be in control before they can take the leap.

Time waits for no man...no matter how attractive =)

Kimberly said...

What is so hard to understand? I want a regular FWB - pay some attention, show some respect, demonstrate real interest and it could be you. Who can't handle that? Sigh, men.

bdenied said...

MsL: I think we are finding that a lot of guys do a lot more talking than they do fucking......

Kimberly:She really liked your comment....

Emma Kelly said...
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Emma Kelly said...

Hi bd,

Em had a guy like that years ago in Tokyo, all hot to trot-party, drugs, exotic travel. She was infatuated with him briefly though not drawn to those activities with him. He always pressured her for bareback sex but she was firm about refusing that to him. He always promised pie in the sky but disappeared when it was time to get down to the only thing that interested her... Was he good in bed?

He vanished after many, many excuses only to pop up a year or so later. When they finally got together, her interest in him had long since waned but she followed through out of curiosity. As expected, it turned out to be a very lackluster performance and his first name passed into our personal lexicon for "no-show faker."

I think lots of guys have truly distorted ideas about hotwives and cuckoldresses. This guy, I'm sure, had fantasies about an NSA slutty girl he could get wild with but underneath it all we thought he had serious performance anxiety.

PS-We hope to be up and running again soon. We'll give Blogger a week or so but most likely we're going to move to our own domain.

Best,

scott
Mrs. Kelly's Playhouse

bdenied said...

Scott: You have my personal response but thanks for posting here, and we look forward to seeing you guys up again

Milliscent said...

Perhaps some of the guys reading this post will learn from it.

Hot and kinky sex is more than just sex, a partner wants, and deserves some level of ongoing attention and communication.

M

PDXsubcuck said...

Hmmh, some of my favorite blogs are having to move, might not be all that long before we have to find a new home?

It really is one of those mysteries to me, so many guys seem to be so hot to trot and then when it get time to meet...they have reasons, excuses, problems or just don't show! I don't understand it. After a few Brandi gets a bit gun shy and doesn't want to make the effort.

I don't mind guys having an imagination and using ads or blogs to whack off to but I'd like it if they would try to avoid going further if they don't really want to make it happen.

Finding the right lovers can be a real pain and take a lot of time and effort, something you just don't think when you start at this. I know we add to our problems by Brandi wanting "lovers' not just a fuck, we could get her fucked by just going to a swing club but she wants more, Good luck for the future.

Desireous said...

Well it sounds like he missed the boat on that one. Quite obviously his loss!

Des

bdenied said...

PDX: Sounds as if you know the tune to the song

Ms M: Yes and perhaps there will be world peace tomorrow....pardon the sarcasim but men learning anything is a newsworthy event.

D: indeed he did

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