Creating links

I am trying to learn to create links to other blogs I read on my site. Hopefully that will draw more readers here. I have not learned to create links on the right hand or left hand margins as I see on so many other blogs but I did manage to put one link in today and it will take you to "Lady with a Secrete" blog site. She is a woman who is having an affair/s thereby cuckolding her husband....I like her a lot for doing that.