Do you ever watch, participate, etc.
Yes to both but its rarely and I have not "participated in a very long time. If I am present, I would prefer to watch or be in another room, hearing but not seeing. I love watching but I do not want her to be inhibited and not watching, being behind a closed door is very fucking erotic.....
Yes to both but its rarely and I have not "participated in a very long time. If I am present, I would prefer to watch or be in another room, hearing but not seeing. I love watching but I do not want her to be inhibited and not watching, being behind a closed door is very fucking erotic.....
How often does she have sex with other men, vs you-
There is no set pattern. She has fucked one guy three times in a week, and she has been absent another cock for months. It depends on how often one of her two steady guys get to town. Last year I think the first guy came to town a dozen or so time. We have some type of sexual activity daily but if you are referring to penetration, maybe once every couple of weeks to once a month or so. You have to understand, I rarely ejaculate whether I fuck her or not......
There is no set pattern. She has fucked one guy three times in a week, and she has been absent another cock for months. It depends on how often one of her two steady guys get to town. Last year I think the first guy came to town a dozen or so time. We have some type of sexual activity daily but if you are referring to penetration, maybe once every couple of weeks to once a month or so. You have to understand, I rarely ejaculate whether I fuck her or not......
For anyone interested and afraid to talk to their spouse a good way to start the conversation is by mentioning an article you read or a segment you saw on a documentary. Dont push, just listen for the reaction. A reaction such as, "that's horrible who would let their wife do that!" is a pretty good indication she aint going there. An oh, that is different opens up a possible, honey If I were ok with it would you be. Most times the answer will be no because she does not believe it. But it can be used as an opener. We talked about it for about ten years before ti happened. I am not usually patient but this was a rare exception and I knew eventually it would happen. One might even say, "Hey if I were in an accident and was paralized would you have sex with an
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That last one is a great pointer. I can't over emphasize the need for being patient. Luckily, it didn't take my wife ten years to come around, only about two or three, but still, most guys seem to think that this fantasy should be as easy to accommodate for a wife as, say a feather or wearing some heels during sex.
I do think that more and more people are being exposed to the various forms of this arrangement, and at least it isn't just completely coming from left field when a husband introduces it. I'm sure when you and I started making these suggestions to our wives, there was no PornHub full of cuckold videos to show our wives that we weren't complete animals!
As far as your pointers answer, I agree with you; however, I'm in a bit of a unique situation in that my wife was a hotwife and has stopped completely. Her reasons are a little vague, I guess I could say, probably some combination gulit/moral issues, difficulty in finding the steady boyfriend/FWB she was looking for (she experienced a lot of flakiness, which seems typical in this lifestyle, finally find one and then that didn't work out), and perhaps even logistical difficulties (aligning schedules and play locations, made more difficult by the fact that we can't host since we have teenagers around).
She made it clear to me that that won't happen again. However, she confused me a bit by (much to my delight) teasing me about it. Examples: during a trip to wine tasting, she pointed out that "that's where I met "Bull #4"; that's where I got off to go to "Bull #6"'s condo. During sex, sometimes, she will make subtle references to the fact that she's made other men hard/cum. So, it's not a taboo subject and she knows I enjoyed it. I'm at the point that I'm once again a wanna cuckold husband, and greatly missing it.
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