Four Years

Four Years ago
Four Years ago today, I began to write this blog. Below you will find the post that began this blog. In the four years there have been 559 posts published, twenty-seven drafts that I did not deem worthy of publication and numerous re-designs to the blog. This post will be number 560 a nice even fitting number with which to say my final goodbye. Yes, all things good and bad must come to an end and I shall let you the reader decide if it was a good thing or a bad thing. I want to say that to each of you who has taken the time to comment or read my blog or tag along as a "follower", you are much appreciated.

The blog is ending for several reasons.

First and foremost, I just do not believe I can add anything useful anymore to the discussion of cuckolding. What more can I say really that has not been said?

Secondly: Readership has dropped to all times lows. My stats tell me that from high of over 2,000 page visits a day, I saw one day last week with less than ten. Comments have dropped to almost none at all and only from the same loyal readers. I must conclude there is little interest in the blog....I have tried to use photos, cartoons and other visuals in the blog to keep it interesting but perhaps there have not been enough.

Finally, our cuckolding action has diminished to almost nothing itself, so there are really no erotic details to talk about. I think the both of us are finished looking for that guy who can provide the spice that we seek and we will just stay with what we have and if it happens it does and if it doesn't it doesn't.

The final tally for those of you interested in these stats, is that my lovely lady has had 18 different friends with benefits since we married. Not a bad number for a guy who enjoys his wife having sex with others. Certainly no record but not bad for the husband who is into this.

So good bye and good luck. The blog will be left in place for a while so if anyone wants to catch up they can and if they just stumble across the pages they can if they have an interest go back and read about our adventures. Thanks to each of you who has been a loyal reader, you have no idea how much you have meant to us.

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First Post


I am writing this blog to give a real life perspective on what it is like to be a husband who has a beautiful wife who is not afraid to have sex with other men. I have encouraged her do do so and since we embarked on this course I have not looked back in regret one time. Ours is a relationship built on trust. We are not involved in fantasy cuckolding, so those of you who come here to read erotic cuckold fantasy will not find it. Sorry but as I said this is real.

We have been married for 14 years, and after a lot of discussion she began seeing other men about four years ago. She is very picky and very selective. To date she has been sexually intimate with about 11 or 12 different men. I always seem to get the count incorrect. I will try to tell about each of her experiences. From the outset, let's get one thing straight. I do not always watch. Rarely participate and we are not involved in degredation, humiliation, or any of the other fantasy stuff one reads about. No, its just about her sexual pleasure with other men and with my blessings, encouragement and approval.

Cold, slow days

This photo was taken on a snowy cold day. I still think her ass is hot. But then I've got a predjudice too. Apparenlty other men have found it pretty hot too but problem is, no one has been around since well before Christmas.

Sure she cuckolds me via phone sex with her number one fuck buddy, but getting cuckolded via phone and getting cuckolded by a guy coming by, and taking her into our bedroom is quite another thing. I am frankly hoping for a thaw in the weather if you know what I mean.

Christmas Overseas

This year we took a little vacation to a foriegn destination. We got to see lots of snow.

One of the things we did was go to a hot springs mineral bath facility.

Our chosen destination was co-ed and also clothing free... Naked....no nothing to cover up with.

Even clothing optional places here in the states have you wear a towel. Not where we went... Buck naked.....just the way we like it..although a terry cloth towel for warmth would have been nice.

One thing I noted was that our friends from across the pond do not depiliate as much as we do here in the states. I counted one other man besides myself who had no pubic hair and although the women trimmed most had full pubic bushes. I have to admit we prefer the shaved no hair look and feel....but..

What really liked was that the massage tables were also co-ed. I opted for a body scrub and Ms Bdenied opted for a more gentle cream massage.

I was scrubbed by a rather matronly lady and she was massaged by a relatively handsome man, who I would love to have seen touch her where he did not...right between her legs. but having another man touch one's naked wife if one is the cuckold husband a true joy.

Poll Results

Not a great deal of responses but of those I got over half 57% said it was the female's choice to get a guy off if she started to touch his cock.....that's about right.

well we have been away for the Christmas holidays, and nothing to report on regarding cuckolding.

so this is just an update.

New look and poll

I have changed the look slightly, and added a poll on the side ball. The poll should only be answered by girls please....

Im trying to see if the blog still generates any interest. Coments are almost non existent even though the follower bar appears to be growing. I suspect that is because, the followers are trying to direct readers to commercial sites, as I have removed many that do.

Even Ms bdenied gets few if any comments to her posts. Her last generated three and I would think that her postings would generate more, so Im supposing the blog is loosing its interest and may have been taken as far as possible.

I know I've mentioned this before, and our writings have slowed down, somewhat because nothing is going on and somewhat becuase we suspect a lack of interest.

Thanks, and to those who have read us in the past we do appreciate your support.

What she did not tell you

Msr Bdenied wrote a nice post about her latest encounter with one of her favorite guys. She told you about her phone session while I was driving and yes she did tell him some things I had not heard her say...She made some inferences to his cock seize and such things. It was fun listening and I got quite hard but there was no relief for me.

In any event the night my old friend from a previous company was here proved to be quite hot for me. it was as if she were fucking with both he and I present.

Then when her boyfriend came over I was really excited because I knew I would get to listen and was hoping that she would sink to her knees and suck him off at the door so I could watch but nope....she told me before he came over that I should leave the house. It turned out that he did not call right before he came over as he usually does so I was here and did see him hugging and kissing her at the door but she said to him, that I was just leaving.

Now the day before he came over she did ask me to shave her and usually that is followed up by a nice pussy licking for her and a good orgasm. Well that part happened but I also got to fuck her.....but...this is what she did not tell you. I did not come in her.....no...I came in the condom I was wearing and I hate to admit it, but it was not a magnum...He made sure before he left that he placed his used magnum wrapper in the trash bin where I was sure to see it and that is what she did not tell you...that to fuck my own wife I had to wear a rubber so he would not have to deal with sloppy seconds and since he fucked her I have not been in her pussy. Nope I got to cum in the rubber that day and check her post for the date, and since then I have not cum at all. Yesterday, she got her pussy shaved again and I got a wet face from her squirting all over it but all I got was my cock stroked and it was through my jeans so I really could not feel much. I kept hoping she would unbutton them and take it out and let me cum but she never did.

Later that night I had on some hytech thermal pants that I wear under my clothes when I got out into the wilderness to do male things like hunt etc. They are very thin material but very warm and she was playing with my cock through those pants...While they let me feel more than jeans would and she had me close to cumming, once again I was left on the edge....that is the plight of a cuckold husband whose wife likes tease and denial....see the cartoon if you can read it.

By the way, to my knowledge cowboy never did get with her last week

HO HO HO....MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL

by Mrs B Denied

I am a "personal Whore" for my Jet Jockey...and boy was I ever this week! HO HO HO-- (euphenisms for whore... ha ha ha)

Ok. There was the phone call in the car while hubby was driving--I pretended to be the one driving and no, Jet Jockey, I can't put my hand down my pants because I am driving and holding the cell phone---so I just talked him through his needs. He likes danger--who else would ask a girl to sit on his cock while he drives, and I DID! That was a hot time in the city that night, let me tell you! But that was many years ago now..but it still makes me laugh!

Then last Friday morning, he called for his now usual before weekend phone bone session...this time I was home alone. he always asks, "Where are you? Are you alone?" This time I did not have to lie. I told him I had just awakened, was still in bed...nice and warm---my pussy was very warm and waiting for his huge cock...I can talk so much freer for some reason when Hubby is not around. If he thought he heard things last week in the car he never heard...well.....at any rate, I said all the things to really stroke his ego, and he got off, thanked me and we hung up. Perfect.

Monday we got a house guest for the week...not a fuck buddy, just a family friend we have not seen in a long time. Hubby & he used to work together, and he happened to be in town, so he crashed at our place to visit. Just a friend--a no benefits friend. Too religious & dedicated to his girlfriend.

Tuesday--another usual time for Jet Jockey to call (he must not get laid on weekends with his wife!!!!) This time was text messages. Skype? he asked...sure--but it was getting close to when I go to my part time volunteer job--he was still 10 mins away from the hotel...and he had trouble connecting....tick tick tick.....all the while texting back & forth, making doubly sure I was alone.....(he caught me the very first time I learned to Skype--I had not signed off & he heard me talking to hubby--OOPS! He will never let me live that one down!). I gave up, & hooked the computer back up on the desk instead of on the bed. I thought he'd just call. But he must have been overseas (cheaper to text than to call, & Skype is free). He did connect--I leaned back in the chair & gave him a good view and a show...stuck my fingers in, stuck in a dildo for him to see (that is his dick by proxy)...he was already good & ready, mentally & physically, so it was not long before he shot his load. I said I wished it was on my face instead of his computer screen! Anyway--I did get to work on time. :)

Wednesday I got a text from Cowboy wanting to get together for dinner--this week not good! So he texted maybe next Wed or Thursday? Sure, sure.....he is a patient guy, so his texts stopped. So now it was Jet Jockey #1 and Cowboy--I am getting so much better at texting!

Then when I thought it was safe...I get a package from UPS--a package of sexy underwear...since I knew I did not order them...I knew it was the guy I thought I FINALLY dumped. Yup, it was from him---I am getting freaked out, like being stalked or something. I e-mailed him & asked him if it was him, and said thank you, but NO MORE. Hubby told me what to write to really have him leave me alone--that he was making me uncomfortable. He wrote something back like he did not want me to feel rejected...ha ha ha....that's a good one. I did not respond since I never want to hear from him again. Boy is he DENSE!

Then in the mail, with house guest sitting by--In the mail, Hubby got a Thank You card from his "girlfriend"...yes, he has his own source! She likes to tease him & play with his balls--he saw her the week before & took her out to dinner. She played with him after dinner, but would not let him cum. She thanked him for the dinner & the "torture" session! Hubby & I had to squelch our smiles, since House Guest would have NO IDEA & that's how we want it--

Still Wednesday- and here comes a phone call from #2 guy, I'll call Shoulders. (they are nice & broad! YUMMY!) Have not heard from him in a long time. It was good to hear from him--he is a good time when we get together. He is now back home for good after being overseas. We set up a get together for Thursday. Gotta get him while the getting is good--he is HOT. Plus, he also must have been in the top of his class in his chosen field which is also a turn on for me, snob that I am.

Wednesday evening, Hubby & I were going out to dinner with our house guest & his co-worker--and here comes a text from...Jet Jockey! I had to tell the truth this time--I texted I can't talk, am not alone. Then when we got home--he texted, am I back yet? Poor baby has been really horny this week!!! Even though our house guest & Jim were watching TV, I said it was my son & went into the bedroom---I tried to be very quiet---I said..ooo how dangerous this is--I told him straight out my guests were at the other end of the house & I was in the bedroom, trying to stifle my groans with a pillow---he asked, you like danger, don't you? yes, I said, and that pushed him over the edge. I could barely not laugh when I went out into the living room! Hubby knew by the look on my face who it was & what I was up to.....hee hee hee--I am sooo bad!

Thursday, right on time like we said--lunch time. High noon. DING DONG....even though it was in the 30's out side temperature, he walked in with a hard on. I grabbed his hard on through is pants & said, come on. Hubby was just leaving to go get lunch,...He asked, isn't he staying to listen? I said, nope, I told him I told hubby to get out, my "boyfriend" was coming & that I have to be obeyed! (I am getting a little more comfortable with him, so I can be bolder) I grabbed his crotch & led him down the hall to the bedroom. When I took my sweater off, he played with my breasts..his hands were freezing! So I put them between my legs & made a noise like steam from cold meeting hot.....he took his pants off after I took off mine (I'll show you mine if you show me yours...ha ha ha). I grabbed his hard on, knelt down and started sucking. He is one who likes it good & hard..some men like just going in & out...he is a tough guy. I can suck away and he just moans in pleasure--"yeah, that's the way!" When he got close, he stopped me and we went on the bed. He licked my pussy a little, then he got his Magnum on and fucked me sideways, then frontways, and finally warrior style from behind--by that time he was ready & came hard. I got fucked everywhich way but loose! The we talked for a while, and I never did hear hubby come home..but poor boy was not feeling well & just laid on the couch. I told fuck buddy how hot he is and how much I enjoy fucking him....wished him Merry Christmas & off he went. Perfect.

Me? All I could think of was some song they sing in bars & the audience puts in lyrics that are not meant to be there. You Picked A Fine Time To Leave Me Lucile...YOU BITCH! YOU SLUT! YOU WHORE! That's me! HO HO HO!!!!!! And isn't life grand?