Monday, June 24, 2024

Birds of a Feather......

 Everyone knows the old saying "Birds of a Feather Stick Together."  So it is true with birds the same applies to people.

As people we all like to be around people of a like mind and of the same interests. When those interests veer off into alternative or not exactly what some might call mainstream sexual activity, it becomes even harder to make friends and be around people of the same like mindedness.

With the advent of the internet much of that has changed because we find that we do not suffer from what I call "terminal uniqueness." Meaning we feel we are the only ones doing something, so therefore we are to put it mildly to ourselves  we are "unique." or as others might call weird.  

I once was in a library and they had an old medical dictionary from 1948.  I happened to look up fellatio and it was defined as the "perverted act of taking ones penis orally." Note the word perverted. The same definition with "perverted" also applied to cunnilingus.  I doubt many today would accept those definitions and no we were not the first generation to engage in those acts.

So it came as no surprise to me when I happened to stumble upon a profile from a person whose wife cuckolds him, and who also has an alpha personality but yet is often kept in a chastity device.  

If you have read this blog you know I am a cuckold husband, have an alpha personality and in the past I too have been in a male chastity device.  

Well its easy to find like minded folks on the internet but finding a couple that live 20 minutes from us in the town next door is not so usual.  Cutting to the chase, I reached out, he replied, we chatted and we agreed to meet, him, his wife, me my wife.  Just to chat and discuss mutual "kinks." 

Turns out that is not all we had in common. He and I are both from the same profession (it need not be revealed) had worked around the same time, left around the same time. He is definitely and alpha guy, his wife a beautiful lady, sexy and smart and; me, yeah I'm alpha too, my wife  is also a beautiful lady and quite smart and very sexy.  When we met the first time both us men were in chastity and both the wives wore dresses with no panties and we got to check out each other to make sure the rules were followed.

Since then we have been out with them several times. We enjoy each others company. The guys are always locked and the girls wear they keys visible and when we meet them now we are usually with a group of friends who are very vanilla but all like the same music venue. Only once was my wife asked what the key is for and she said something like its the "key to happiness." I am not sure anyone has noticed both ladies wear them, but it's fun being in mixed company with them wearing them and us being locked.

The other cool thing is that for my wife and I "swinging" has never been a thing but we agree if we do, this is the couple to do it with.  I am sure us guys would like a go at the others wife but being locked up is not allowing that to happen.  That to be honest is very erotic since wanting to have sex with a woman and being locked in chastity makes it even more erotic. Not getting what one wants makes one want it all the more.

Here are some shots of us, albeit edited for their privacy as well as ours.  

The wives siting together:


My wife and her husband


This is the cage I wore. She even texted my wife asking her to make sure I was locked for the evening. My wife was happy to comply:  It was cold inside the restaurant so his wife and I went outside to get warm. We found s secluded spot and she had me take off my pants so she could check out my cage. She had also requested that I did not wear underwear so it was just a thin pair of slacks and my cage. When she cupped my balls with her hands I could feel just how chilly she had gotten.  


This is her husbands cage: He wears a custom made metal device.  As you can see he looks like he is in cock prison. His cock is visible whereas mine is totally out of sight and completely encaged.  Both of us of course are totally shaved and his wife mentioned how much she likes shaved men. My wife does too and on the drive home my wife was in the back seat of the car with her husband. I found out she had taken his cock out of his pants and was playing with it in his prison.  I can't tell you how fun it is to actually be with another couple where the wives have both husbands secure in cock cages where we can not do what we both want to do and this is get into the pussies of our different wives nor even our own wives.


All in all it was a very fun night for all of us:  


Tuesday, June 18, 2024

A Sunday with the Wife

Even though I got to fuck her (my wife)  Sunday and actually cum, I have not fucked her as much this year as other men have.  Also the last two times I did fuck her I did it in a condom.  


She had wanted to try to get a condom on giving a blow job. I think she wanted to do this with the new guy she met but did not want to fuck it up. I brought it up and asked her to try on me. Both times she had some difficulty and I told her I was kicking her out of the "Sex workers of America Union."  

But Sunday I gave myself a shot  at fucking my wife, which has not happened for a few weeks. I have not fucked her, masturbated or even cum in a few weeksI wanted to insure I had a good hard on so I took a small yellow pill. (It worked) and after shaving her and eating her to a nice orgasm, She was playing with my very hard cock.  I gave her the condom and she tried but had to roll it down.  She gave me the blow job. (This might sound weird) but I didn't  want her mouth on my cock. I wanted  that mouth reserved for other men's cocks. I didn't  want to cum in her mouth, because I want that reserved for other men. If I never got a blow job  from her that would be ok.   I really dont care for them much anyway. She loves sucking cocks so why not other men.  I like watching her suck them. I prefer handjobs. Most men hate handjobs from women but love blow jobs. Of course I have to be different. Now don't get me wrong if she wants to suck my dick she is more than entitled to get what she wants but I probably wont ever ask. I have just a few times but mostly I ask for a handjob instead.

So after she sucked me for a while, she fucked me and had another orgasm. I was not close to cumming.  My back was really acting up so I did not fuck her but let her get on top and fuck me.  The only thing about the condom I regretted was that I wanted to cum in her and have her get on my face but I did not want the condom to cum off. It was providing some reduced stimulation and that was helping me last longer. I was in her pussy but my dick could not feel much which was what I was after becasue I wanted it to last and not get so sensitive I would blast off like the Space Shuttle. If I was going  to fuck her I did not want to feel  much of anything other than the pleasure  of knowing I was inside her very tight pussy.  

Eventually after a good long time fucking. We had to stop once when she got a leg cramp from an intense orgasm. She eventually started giving me a handjob.  I could not feel much of that either. Well no direct skin on skin contact but her hand wrapped around my hard on felt good and it felt secure.  My dick was really hard and the condom was acting almost like a rubber band squeezing it. Usually she will just lightly stroke me (usually though my underwear and get me off in my pants) This too reduces some of the sensation of skin on skin but the thin fabric makes for a very sensual feeling.  The latex condom really does reduce sensitivity.  In this case that is a very good thing.  But I know why guys dont like using them.  

This time however; she had to really grab it and hold it tight and very forcefully stroke me. She was pounding up and down with a lot of full on grip and as I began to cum she really began jerking me. I was very guttural in my moaning and I came as hard as I have ever cum in that condom. I wanted the cum to splatter all over but at the same time wanted it contained so it did not get all over.  The condom contained my cum like in this photo that is not us but what it looked like.  It was very sexy.



It was quite a conundrum of emotions.  I love the feel of hot cum as it erupts but also love the denial of my cum going anyplace, especially into a pussy.

This feeling actually happened when I dated the girl I was going with before I met my wife. She (the girlfriend) was not on birth control and asked me to wear a condom.  On occassion she would allow bear pentetration if I promised not to cum in her. I had not gotten my vasectomy at that time so I was more than willing to not get her pregnant even though I know it only takes a drop and even the pull out method is risky...But in the two years I dated her I never once came in her and only fucked her raw 2 or three times. She eventually talked me into getting a vasectomy which made me feel twice a virile because I knew  cant get her or anyone pregnant, and for a guy with kinky  tendencies that was quite a turn on. Even after the Vasectomy she did not want me to cum in her, because she did not like the mess. 

The photo came from a video I found and I have ut a link to it here: 





Birds of a Feather......

 Everyone knows the old saying "Birds of a Feather Stick Together."  So it is true with birds the same applies to people. As peopl...